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    Quote Originally Posted by turquoisecoast View Post
    your “man” sounds like a d!ck. what kind of a selfish snowflake of a manchild resents his partner for caring for her terminally ill mother? she didn’t “cater to his needs”? what about her needs? did he cater to hers?

    sounds like a classic case of douchebag gone wrong. he’s stuck in the 50s living out some patriarchal fantasy and blowing through women when they stop “catering to his needs”. oh his former partner was never “fun”, gosh i wonder how much fun losing your dying parent must be. poor little tommy d!ckbag was off having a sook though, because his wife wasn’t up for a blow job and a trip to bali.

    f.cking please.

    the issue is not his partner, it’s him! i wonder how long it’ll be before he finds a new “dream girl” and you’re yesterday’s news.

    Think you may be on to something here. Thanks.

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    Oh lovely. You sound like a kind and caring person. But this man you want to be with is no man at all.

    I’m glad he’s leaving his ex wife. It sounds like she is SO much better off without him.

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    So much to dissect here.

    Firstly. You said you met on a dating site. When he was still with his (now ex) wife. And he had to hide you. Sorry but that’s an emotional affair right there. Nothing physical may have happened but the fact he a) was on a dating site while still with his wife and b) was HIDING his contact with you says it all. You were the other woman. End of. Emotional affairs are just as bad as physical affairs.

    Secondly. His reasons for leaving the marriage are pathetic. This poor woman was caring for her dying mother and he was more concerned about HIS needs?! Don’t even get me started on the infertility and weight issues. At any time, has he admitted any of his faults that lead to the marriage breakdown, or has he only told you how horrible his ex wife is? Also, think about what man leaves his wife soon after her mother, whom she had been caring for, passes away. When grief is still raw and she needs him the most.

    And let me guess- he says all the right things to you. I’m guessing (and forgive me if I’m wrong) that he told you he fell for you pretty early into your friendship/relationship?

    Sounds like you have yourself an A1 narcissist there!

    Run. Run as fast as you can. Because I can almost guarantee, he will do the same thing to you the moment he feels like you aren’t giving him what he wants.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SheWarrior View Post


    So much to dissect here.

    Firstly. You said you met on a dating site. When he was still with his (now ex) wife. And he had to hide you. Sorry but that’s an emotional affair right there. Nothing physical may have happened but the fact he a) was on a dating site while still with his wife and b) was HIDING his contact with you says it all. You were the other woman. End of. Emotional affairs are just as bad as physical affairs.

    Secondly. His reasons for leaving the marriage are pathetic. This poor woman was caring for her dying mother and he was more concerned about HIS needs?! Don’t even get me started on the infertility and weight issues. At any time, has he admitted any of his faults that lead to the marriage breakdown, or has he only told you how horrible his ex wife is? Also, think about what man leaves his wife soon after her mother, whom she had been caring for, passes away. When grief is still raw and she needs him the most.

    And let me guess- he says all the right things to you. I’m guessing (and forgive me if I’m wrong) that he told you he fell for you pretty early into your friendship/relationship?

    Sounds like you have yourself an A1 narcissist there!

    Run. Run as fast as you can. Because I can almost guarantee, he will do the same thing to you the moment he feels like you aren’t giving him what he wants.
    I was told by someone else he sounded a bit narcissistic.

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    It's school holidays yeah?

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    @turquoisecoast your post is so wrong, but hilarious

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    Quote Originally Posted by JustJaq View Post
    @turquoisecoast your post is so wrong, but hilarious
    yeah but it’s on the money, no? 🤣

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    He really does sound very narcissistic from your initial post.

    You may not be the other woman now, but you certainly were at some point

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    Quote Originally Posted by turquoisecoast View Post
    yeah but it’s on the money, no? 🤣
    I Certainly started my day with a chuckle...

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    Quote Originally Posted by SSecret Squirrel View Post
    It's school holidays yeah?
    Exactly my thoughts. I smell bs.

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