If you do have kids with him, you will be catering to their needs and probably not so much his for a while. It sounds dreamy when you haven’t had kids but reality is very different. My advice, do not marry or have kids with this guy, especially kids until you have been together and lived together for a couple of years to make sure you would be happy with him. Don’t rush.
But all the things you mentioned, you could also go through, so maybe he just didn’t love his ex enough to work through all those things or maybe he didn’t like not being centre of attention. I don’t know.
At the end of the day, do what you want to do, who cares what others think. It’s your life. If you’re in love that’s great, but he may do the same to you when he’s not getting what he whats. See where it goes if you like. If you’re confidant about what you want then ignore people.
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They say I am having an affair with a married man but he's separated!
I agree. I think it’s an outright mean thing to say, even more so as this forum is half full of women struggling to fall pregnant so you’ve misjudged your audience. Fertility isn’t a guarantee. You could be faced with exactly the same problem and would that be a valid black mark against your name and make you less than worthy?
Putting on weight is also a sign of someone whose dealing with a lot of stress and having a mother with dementia and infertility problems are hugely stressful. You sound very young so I’d just be mindful that youth doesn’t last forever. You may also have family members who’ll get sick in the future, you may also get sick, you may also be infertile. His relationship may have ended but he also walked away from a woman at her lowest and who knows how he treated her. I think there’s some compassion needed and some growing up to do before you settle into your dream future. That woman sounded like she dodged a bullet quite frankly!Last edited by amiracle4me; 02-10-2019 at 22:28.
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