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    Default Suggestions and positive words needed

    Hi ladies,

    I am writing this amongst bouts of crying.

    3rd cycle BFN using donor sperm. The last cycle was PGD tested and the clinic have not called me even after saying they would which has led me to believe that none of the blastocysts are normal.

    I feel should I call them anyway, it is my right to know.

    Also I have issues now with the clinic due to failing to advise a few things from the beginning of my treatment.

    I have literally spent all of my money on this and for absolutely nothing. I knew from the start that this clinic had in its annual report bonuses paid to fertility specialists by reaching a targeted number of cycles however wanted to give the benefit of the doubt that I was not just a dollar sign.

    I can scrape by JUST with 1 more cycle and considering going overseas as I am feeling that Australia is just money hungry and full of regulations.

    You are reassured you will be able to fall pregnant easily with IVF at the beginning then it is retracted when they realise just because of your age it might not be so easy after all!

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    How old are you hun if you don’t mind me asking? I think it’s definitely time for a clinic change. I see your in NSW, the ladies can probably tell you who is the best up there.

    When you say overseas do you mean just for treatment or for donor eggs?

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    Quote Originally Posted by WintersDay View Post
    Hi ladies,

    I am writing this amongst bouts of crying.

    3rd cycle BFN using donor sperm. The last cycle was PGD tested and the clinic have not called me even after saying they would which has led me to believe that none of the blastocysts are normal.

    I feel should I call them anyway, it is my right to know.

    Also I have issues now with the clinic due to failing to advise a few things from the beginning of my treatment.

    I have literally spent all of my money on this and for absolutely nothing. I knew from the start that this clinic had in its annual report bonuses paid to fertility specialists by reaching a targeted number of cycles however wanted to give the benefit of the doubt that I was not just a dollar sign.

    I can scrape by JUST with 1 more cycle and considering going overseas as I am feeling that Australia is just money hungry and full of regulations.

    You are reassured you will be able to fall pregnant easily with IVF at the beginning then it is retracted when they realise just because of your age it might not be so easy after all!
    Hope you are OK today @WintersDay. I would change clinic definitely. Have you had nkc, endo, era test, compatibility test with sperm? There are ladies on forum who know far more than me. Read other threads. I have had to direct myself to fc, fs that will do what I need.
    In my opinion, I don't know why I pay them.
    It is an emotionally hard journey and the experts don't know what to do. Great hey!? I hope you can pick yourself up and read this forum. You will find more info here than any expert can tell you.
    Wish you all the best.
    Last edited by RubADub; 26-04-2019 at 19:44.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mod-Wise Enough View Post
    How old are you hun if you don’t mind me asking? I think it’s definitely time for a clinic change. I see your in NSW, the ladies can probably tell you who is the best up there.

    When you say overseas do you mean just for treatment or for donor eggs?
    Hi,

    I am 35. I have my own eggs but it seems the quality is not great.

    I have been on ubiquinol and other supplements since last year. Just put on DHEA. I guess it was not in my system long enough.

    Am doing the NK Cells test next. I was tested for endo years ago and was fine but was also thinking to get re-checked.

    As far as compatibility goes it is unsure. I was not advised until i was about to get anaethetised there was not much left of this donors sperm(so clearly there has been a lot of it used meaning there are HEAPS of offspring to him OR others have had a lot of failed pregnancies with it). I am going to choose another donor next cycle and one that is PGS tested. I liked his bio so did not consider the PGS to be that inportant but the bad outcomes are coming from somewhere. The clinic should not of kept his on the shelf if there was not much left or multiple failed cycles. They just say if 3 cycles and no pregnancy choose a different donor.

    Am feeling better now and will run some more tests and decide what to do next. I dont want to go overseas but here its just a guessing game each cycle after cycle.

    It was a rough week of tears.
    Last edited by WintersDay; 26-04-2019 at 21:38.


 

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