Hi all, I'm looking for some tips for my 4.5yo. When she was 3 they assessed her and said that she has sensory issues, had a strong need for control and anxiety (often resulting from lack of control).

Anyway, she just started at a new kindy, I have stopped work and she has a new sibling.

She has been having wee accidents in her undies at least once a day however she isn't telling anyone. This happens both at home and at kindy. I'm having to remind her to use the toilet. Her kindy teacher yesterday mentioned that she goes from zero to 100 very quickly when upset but that she is also able to calm quickly. She is also struggling to make friends which breaks my heart.

She is also biting her nails. To the point where they are so short. One finger is now infected. She has also started talking about bad dreams. I'm unsure if she is having them or if other kindy friends have been talking about them.

Anyway I'm open to tips and suggestions. I'm so very heartbroken for her.