I thought of 2 ladies as my besties we actually had a group bestie situation going but when I went through my really bad patch when Dad died they weren't there much then when I started losing weight after my surgery their jealousy peaked through so I don't communicate with them much anymore I figured if they can't be there for me when things are bad and can't celebrate the good things with me then they aren't really friends. I have a few people I would class as friends but none as a best friend unless it's DH he is the only one that I could think would get that title