Advice please: I've offended my DH over family ring

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big hugs. it does sound like he's taken it hugely personally. i think you're going to need to make some quiet time together and find out why he's so offended about your idea. i think your bday gift idea is wonderful, and you worded it tactfully and tastefully.

i don't really get why he'd be that cut about the family heirloom ring tbh. the idea that one ring is going to be to every recipient's taste is silly. i think it's completely natural and normal and understandable you'd want a ring "of your own".

i hope you manage to with it out with your dh! keep us posted! xx