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    I'm feeling like a really, really terrible person at the moment.

    My brother and his partner have just - in the last hour - had their baby. I really want to be happy and excited for them but I just feel miserable.

    My phone's going off with messages about it, congratulating to my parents on finally becoming grandparents.

    I'm trying to get past this before I have to go up to the hopstial.

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    Please don't feel bad. Lots of hugs xxx

    Turn your phone off for the day. You can go visit tomorrow xx.

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    ((((Hugs)))) Mellie29, and maybe turn off your ph as Twinklify suggested, be gentle on yourself. xx

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    times like that are so, so hard


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    Sending you many hugs, that must be really tough.

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    Thanks everyone, it's been a bit of a rough day. I've reached out to a counsellor with bears of hope just to have a bit of a talk about things.
    We went and saw them this afternoon, which was hard but did help a little.

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    Im so sorry Hun. Just read up on your history. My ob told me to continue metformin till 12 weeks as it decreases the chance of miscarriage. Not sure if that's helpful or not.

    Big hugs.

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    I'm so sorry for what you've been going through, sending you hugs

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    Hugs @Mellie29 I know how it feels.. it's ok to do you sometimes and that doesn't make you a bad person


 

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