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    @LillyM that's good news to hear you had 3 fertilise. My fingers are still crossed for you.
    @Charlie74 I'm sorry to read your news. Even though you had no expectations it still sucks, but I'm glad that you seem ok.

    I really admire those of you who have a plan B in place. I feel so stuck at the moment.

    I was suppose to ring my new clinic today to organise things for an upcoming cycle. I dialled the number this morning then upbruptly hung up after the first ring!

    Looks like my cycle is now benched again for another month. The further away I get from my last failed cycle, the more I don't want to jump back on the IVF train.

    But I know I will probably have regrets down the track if I don't have at least one try with this new FS.

    Constant battle going on in my head. So confused & angry at myself right now. I don't know where my fight has gone?

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    @ChocolateRain don't be too hard on yourself. Everyone is different and has her own battle. And yes, the battle also includes battling against ourselves sometimes.

    You hanging up the phone means you're not ready just yet. Maybe deep inside you're scared of another failure and keep postponing it. That's ok, we've all been there.

    The Ivf circus is a mad world and you need all your strength and as much certainty as possible to willingly go back in there.
    Take your time and regroup.
    I bet you'll be ready sooner that you think. Xxx

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    Can I off load on here. So 3 embryos PGD good but looks like transfer may be cancelled for another month. I only have December to fall pregnant due to work restrictions. I'm so nervous.
    All 3 friends have had their babies with another 3 on the way. Seeing maternity pics is so hard for me. I just want to extend our family

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    Thanks for your reply @LillyM!

    This would be my last OE cycle and I just feel so overwhelmed when I think about my options after another failure.

    I guess I just have to take things one step at a time.

    I hope things are still going ok on your end!
    @cag14 3 PGD normals is great news, sorry you might not make it to transfer. Have they explained why they may cancel it?

    Thinking of you @Caesardust.

    Hi to everyone else.

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    Hope everyone is okay, considering..
    I feel a bit lost tonight. Blah, actually. Lol.
    I'll get over it.
    Nearly Friday x

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    Hi @Tinachris . I'm here and am feeling lost and blah alongside you tonight. Lol.

    I am now questioning EVERYTHING and have so much self doubt that I don't know what I want anymore or which path to take.

    Bring on Friday afternoon drinks I say!

    Hope you are ok. x

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    @Billie2 I too am done. I did one last cycle to leave with no regrets and we have. After my last miscarriage (my 5th) when I just stared at the screen of the non flickering heart beat, I thought I can't do this again. However after a few months of thinking about ivf we started it to try drug protocols but it didn't happen and whilst we know what we are missing, we are ok. We have to be, what choice do we have. I hope you have more up than down days.
    @Tinachris I hope you are doing ok today.
    @skeeter, thinking of you during this ****ty time.

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    I had a massive F you infertility/IVF/society moment for the past week! Trigger by IVF failures and bills, the constant ****** of messages in the media/society that non-mothers are less valuable than mothers (thanks for rubbing salt into the wound) and incredibly inconsiderate (or stupid) people.

    I highly recommend deactivating social media and avoiding Australian media if you ever have a similar moment! Sometimes you need a break from that constant bombardment.

    Anyway, feeling better atm. I finally took the plunge and made an appointment with another Doctor next week. Though I felt strangely guilty about leaving my first Doctor, is that normal?!

    Hopefully she's a bit more proactive about investigating why my results are what they are, instead of the "keeping doing what you're doing and we'll across our fingers approach".

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    @calpso75 So sorry to hear. Wishing you the best of luck with your next journey.

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    Default The off load IVF page

    i'm ok thanks @Chocolate Rain i hope the self doubt eases for you x
    hugs @calypso75 @givemewaffles the best thing i did last year was get rid of FB, instagram etc and i don't watch news on tv. my news on devices is set to mostly my preferences. so mostly kardashians and celeb gossip lol
    honestly, though so much better for my mental health and less triggers for me. Maybe it's shutting people out or whatever but it DOES make one hell of a difference not having that social media in my face everyday x FB is the worst!!
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