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    Everyone goes into IVF expecting it to work first go. You know the due date, everything is perfect. But so so so often one cycle doesn't work. And it's devastating. Not only are you not pregnant, you need to do IVF again.

    Just always remind yourself it usually takes 4 cycles to get pregnant. Hang in there and be kind to yourself

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wise Enough View Post
    Everyone goes into IVF expecting it to work first go. You know the due date, everything is perfect. But so so so often one cycle doesn't work. And it's devastating. Not only are you not pregnant, you need to do IVF again.

    Just always remind yourself it usually takes 4 cycles to get pregnant. Hang in there and be kind to yourself
    Thankyou for your kind words. ive stopped myself from testing today so we will see how we go tomorrow x

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    The reason why I test every day is I feel like it lets me down a bit each day rather than the big fall. I just know too many who have made it up blood test convinced their pregnant and been devastated when it's negative.

    If you do have a negative just remember this isn't your baby. Just like Charlotte on Se And the City. Each time it didn't work out she said that's not our baby. Your baby is coming. Just look at it as a marathon rather than a one heat sprint.

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    @Wise Enough youre so right about testing everyday. I wouldve hated to get my hopes up and then have it shattered tomorrow. At least now im prepared and ive already had my breakdown so now i have next time to look forward to. Thankyou for that, i never saw it that way


 

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