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    Default Feeling upset, angry, dont know how to handle my emotions

    Hi, im currently doing my first ivf and had a 2 day transfer on the 12th feb. Im not supposed to test until this sunday. Ive already tested yest afternoon and this mornings 2nd urine- both negative. I know its too early to test but Im feeling so down.i just want a yes or no answer. I think deep down inside i know im not preg and i dont know how to deal with it. All i want to do is cry. I had some cramping over the weekend but now nothing no symptoms at all. I guess i dont really have a question i just needed to get it out and vent. Thanks for listening

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    @Adamsmumma dont loose hope its still too early to test. I just finished my first ivf cycle and was convinced it hadnt worked because i had some cramping now I'm 7 weeks and just heard by babys heartbeat for the first time. Its a really hard road and i completely understand the dispair and anguish each cycle causes but try to remain as positive as possible. It will happen for you

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrsBMum2be View Post
    @Adamsmumma dont loose hope its still too early to test. I just finished my first ivf cycle and was convinced it hadnt worked because i had some cramping now I'm 7 weeks and just heard by babys heartbeat for the first time. Its a really hard road and i completely understand the dispair and anguish each cycle causes but try to remain as positive as possible. It will happen for you
    Congratulations! Thats wonderful! Thanks for your encouraging words xx

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    Oh your welcome!! It will happen for you ☺ keep your chin up! Theres loads of girls on here who will chat with you whenever you need advice or a vent 😊 xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrsBMum2be View Post
    Oh your welcome!! It will happen for you ☺ keep your chin up! Theres loads of girls on here who will chat with you whenever you need advice or a vent xx
    Can i just ask when you tested? Was it when you were told to or earlier?

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    I don't know a lot about IVF, but if you had a transfer on the 12th, does it still take a few days for implantation to occur? If that's the case, I wouldn't write yourself off just yet. I have my fingers crossed for you!

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    Having done ivf many times and many transfers. This is the longest 2 weeks of your life until you back to your clinic for blood work. Don't stress which is easier said then done and throw those tests out otherwise it will drive you bonkers

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    I tested at about 16dpo @Adamsmumma so 11 days past my transfer day but its a bit longer to wait with a 2 day

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    Keep testing every day.

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    I tested today as well and it was neg but i was told me not to test til sunday. Yesterday and today all ive done is cry, its like i cant stop. I knew i would be feeling alot of things but i didnt realise it was going to affect me this much. Ive started to push my family and friends away and ive been abit of a cow to my husband. I havent spoken to my bestfriend in days but ive let her know why. Its such an emotional rollercoaster


 

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