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    Default When is too soon to move in?

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    I don't think it's too soon, but obviously there's a few factors to consider. My only concern would be that it doesn't sound like the kids all spend much time together. Would it make sense to maybe sign a 6-month lease and then spend 6 months working towards blending your families a bit more before moving in together? I've been with my DP 3 years this year, and we still haven't moved in, for a variety of reasons, but one big reason being that all our kids don't spend a lot of time together. I would completely take the lease out of the equation, and if you are still thinking you would want to move in within that time frame, then you have your answer

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    We spent five months together and are in process of settlement on a house together and moving forward. It's wonderful to have found each other and everything clicks - ok not perfect but we are both totally comfortable and committed to making it work- and I reckon kids are sensing this stability and love it's not like they were totally unhappy, in fact my two little ones and his little one play so well like a house on fire. It's his two teens that have had a harder time of it and acting but distant and entitled- but we will have to work through it

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    only just read this thread ..

    I am so happy for you @Theboys&me - its so great that you have found someone.

    what did you decide?


 

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