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    How r u going OP? Hope you are okay.

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    Hi ladies, it was a long teary day with my bff she to is having issues but not as bad.

    For the next few nights dp is staying at a friends house to think about the ramifications of everything that has been said

    I have told him I do want to speak not hear from him until Sunday.

    He needs counselling and if he actually wants to be around myself and my kids then the counselling is non negotiable
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    My folks are close by but I haven't said anything to them as yet as they have been through a lot with my exdh and I don't want to hurt them again if I can avoid it.
    @TheGooch if you could send the information that would be greatly appreciative.
    @Full House
    I own the house. I bought it 12 yrs ago as my second property
    @monnie24
    We haven't lived together that long. Just how long I've known him.

    As for money I've always earnt more until I stepped down from upper management to the job I have now. He was an adult apprentice when I met him through mutual friends. He started his own business 2 yrs ago and this last financial year was the first where he has earnt more then me.

    Thank you all for your support

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    I think @SuperGranny nailed it. I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're meant to just be able to enjoy your baby.

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    I am so glad that you are addressing this.

    Its simply not ok. That is nothing to do with the first year being hard - that is just not on.

    either he has to make some serious changes or you need to leave the relationship (though not necessarily the house)

    To be honest, even if he agreed to changes I would think very seriously before agreeing to stay. Anyone who CAN treat you like that isnt what I would see as a respectful and loving person. How can anyone who loves you treat you in that manner?

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    @babybeeno1 I was thinking of you today and I just wanted to check in to see if you're ok? Is your DP back or still at a friend's house til tomorrow?
    Hope you're doing ok and have had some mental space and energy to think about things x

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    @gingermillie. Thank you for asking. He's giving me so space which I had asked for. He texted me earlier to ask when he could come up. I said after the kids had gone to bed would be best as I didn't need any disruption for them and that has been respected. So DS1 went to my parents for the night and DS2 went down at 630. So we are chatting tonight. Will pm you some more

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    I've only just found this thread, I'm so sorry @babybeeno1 this is happening to you Hun.

    I agree with the others. You are in an abusive relationship and it's not just 1st year baby struggles.

    I don't have any advice, just massive hugs. PM me if you need an ear.

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    Hope all goes well.


 

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