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    Default very disturbing

    My ex gf said this to myself and a relative in front of the children.

    "You are both c---s, I want to bash both of you. I want to get a gun and shoot him (me) dead. Ive been thinking
    about it for weeks."

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    Are you sharing custody of your children with this ex?

    That's a fairly concerning statement.

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    the OP has made many of these kinds of posts before I'm sure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by turquoisecoast View Post
    the OP has made many of these kinds of posts before I'm sure.
    Yep!

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    School holidays !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Louise41 View Post
    School holidays !
    The op has made over 400 posts

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    I'm not meaning to be harsh, but you have been intermittently starting these types of posts for years. That she threatens you, that she is abusive to your kids and is an incompetent mother.

    Why have you not taken her to court for full custody? I'm sorry but the ones I feel sorry for if your stories are true, is your kids. You as their father should be protecting them, not starting all these threads then doing nothing.

    Sorry if that is blunt, but there is no possible excuse for leaving those kids with her after years of this. Call DoCS, call the police. Go and file for sole custody today.

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    I'm going to say school holidays either that or a parent that doesn't really care about their children's welfare at all !

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    She does not have custody and has lived away from the kids for at least five years.

    I live with her aunt, who is very responsible and the children.
    She comes to visit between 1 and 3 times a week.

    Its a bit tricky, because it's the aunts house. The family politics is complicated with sisters who sometimes keep secrets from each other etc.

    I have joined a support group for people who have family members who have borderline personality disorder and have learned a few things.
    This is a more severe disorder than I thought and very hard on relatives.
    She is also sometimes paranoid when stressed.

    I've spoken to clinical psychologists, the police, the equivalent of DOCS etc.
    Next step is a legal centre.

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    Just curious, and i don't mean to be rude, but why did you post?


 

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