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    @Grace1 hello lovely lady, im sorry about your last cycle and what your fs had said. I know it wouldnt have been what you wanted to hear. But i reckon, just because she's not hopeful, it doesnt meant they wont let you continue if you want to. I think when they say these things, they are just trying to indicate that it will take lots of time, money and stress, if you do keep going. In a way, i think its better that your fs seems honest, as in, it would be worse if they were giving you false hope just to keep getting your money. Still, in know that doesnt help ease the pain of being told your chances are slim. You can always keep going if you are willing and able to do so xox

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    @Chiefsgirl sorry to hear about your recent worries. I hope things with DD & DH are back to normal now too and glad to hear you're ignoring the neighbours. I hope there's no hassles with their construction but sounds like there could be going from past experiences you've had with them
    @calypso75 sorry to hear also. I'm glad you're making peace with your decision. after a bit of time since my last cycle I was almost at that point too (then our donor appeared for one last shot)
    @Grace1 sorry to hear about your cycle too. hugs
    @Blossom74 @Tahli @tuxcat good luck for september, ladies. sydney turned on the spring weather for you - I think it's a good omen

    I had the call from our clinic co-ordinator so all being well I start the pill next week (af due fri). she's calling again next week with more info/follow up after she speaks with our donor. I'm not going to have the hysteroscopy?/scratch this time. I want to see if it works almost natural with the only difference being DE. she said I take the pill till she says to stop then have a bleed then we sync up & do the fresh transfer (all being well). plus this way if it does work I can say I'm one of those girls who has the pill, goes off it then bam - pg (apart from the years of ivf, using a donor and not being on the pill for maybe 15yrs or more ...) I can dream. &

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    Quote Originally Posted by winsor View Post
    plus this way if it does work I can say I'm one of those girls who has the pill, goes off it then bam - pg (apart from the years of ivf, using a donor and not being on the pill for maybe 15yrs or more ...) I can dream. &
    Love this!!!!

    Ive often thought if ever asked "was it planned" by someone possibly at work or something to say "no.. we are still in total shock..especially at my age!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by tuxcat View Post
    Love this!!!!

    Ive often thought if ever asked "was it planned" by someone possibly at work or something to say "no.. we are still in total shock..especially at my age!"

    haha that's a good response too! might try that too

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    we all know my plan prob won't work out as neatly as that or I wouldn't be in this position. but I'm sending it out to the universe anyway !

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    Quote Originally Posted by tuxcat View Post
    Love this!!!!

    Ive often thought if ever asked "was it planned" by someone possibly at work or something to say "no.. we are still in total shock..especially at my age!"
    Lol, "was it planned?" Ummm, yes. I made a budget, a speadsheet, a calendar and itinerary. Im looking forward to ignorant people saying "so the baby isnt really yours?". Then I'll say, "it is frucking mine. Ive got frucking the receipt to prove it."

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    Quote Originally Posted by gorgeousgeorge View Post
    Lol, "was it planned?" Ummm, yes. I made a budget, a speadsheet, a calendar and itinerary. Im looking forward to ignorant people saying "so the baby isnt really yours?". Then I'll say, "it is frucking mine. Ive got frucking the receipt to prove it."
    or you could say we were on a holiday in greece and BAM!

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    yes must be because you "relaxed and stop thinking about it" whilst on your holiday. that always works, right

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    Default IVF over 40#38

    @calypso75 I know what you mean. Our last stim was our last shot. We went in knowing that, the FS knew that. And now we are 2 frosties away from the end completely. Ive spent 90% of my 30's ttc. Thats a whole lot of tears. DS was 18mths old when I went off the pill, and he just turned 9. I want to hit 40 with no regrets in ttc. Im at the point that Im pretty much there now. I have no feeling of wanting to go into a FET. Absolutely none. And its doing my head in. Back in Tinman mode I think. Cant get hurt if you don't have a heart. I had 6 vials of blood taken today. Im very much over blood being drawn. And it seems it back to front. Maybe if we did it at the start it would make more sense. Secondary infertility means I am very blessed, and we have limits, and Ive hit mine.

    Thinking of you @LillyM xx
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    Quote Originally Posted by winsor View Post
    yes must be because you "relaxed and stop thinking about it" whilst on your holiday. that always works, right
    I'm thinking this is what people would say to me if I got a bfp too. But I don't think I'll get to say that as I woke up this morning with that dread. The dread my body is the issue and those beautiful two embryos will soon be heading down the toilet where all the other 7 have gone. It's like my stomach likes to tell me it's over before it's even began. I suppose I should join the safe house @Charlie74 or @Maxwellsmum as I don't think I'm going to have many positive things to say for this tww or beyond.

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