The little bit of blood will be from the scan, I'm sure. Are you close to a hospital hon? Remember if all else fails you can call an ambulance and just unlock the front door. Are any of us Bub HUb girls close to you? Or do you have a friend you could call to spend the night? I shudder to think of you being alone when you're feeling so upset and worried about bleeding.
FWIW I don't think you're going to be that unlucky. The likelyhood of two bleeds like that have to be slim. But for reassurance and peace of mind you might feel better if there was someone with you other than your DS
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11-08-2016 18:44 #601
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11-08-2016 18:50 #603
@Blossom74 DH and I had a fight when I got home as DS was still in school clothes unfed and outside. So he has gone to bed and I will be sleeping in the trundle next to DS8. I am living the dream..
Surely I cant have the same thing happen. The whole blood flow scared me. I dont give a sh;t about the pregnancy now. I just dont want to end up back on a hosp bed.
11-08-2016 18:56 #604
Ahhh, this whole thing is so difficult, and your DH is probably stressed and worried too hon. After all, he watched you go through all this last time so he probably has lingering concerns about it happening again too. Not to say that's any bl00dy excuse for doing feck-all to help you now!
Like I said, I'd be stunned if you had another event like last time hon. I think that was just really, really bad luck. How about you go and have a nice warm shower, put on some pjs, have something nice to eat and just put your feet up. It's been a long day. A long week FFS. And you are probably so damn stressed and upset, which isn't going to help you.
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11-08-2016 18:57 #605
I'm going to feed the husband now but I'm going to pop back in a bit to make sure you're ok. We will get through this together my love
11-08-2016 19:05 #606
I don't even know what to say, I'm so sorry, I don't know where you are, but I'm going to be at work tonight and can pm you my number. You could call me if you were worried, or sad or anything X
11-08-2016 19:19 #607Senior Member
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@Billie2 im sorry about the scan i thought your nunbers were rising fine so didnt leap out eptoptic to me. Im just hoping that something is hiding there and your bt shows a good result. Last cycle i had very slow rising betas so my clinic scared me with eptopic symptoms to watch out for. I think sometimes the males dont know how to react or they do things without thinking.
11-08-2016 19:37 #608
@Billie2 - Oh hun I am so upset on your behalf how can things be so unclear for you like this you have been left in limbo yet again. You have every right to feel upset, angry and lost.
If a sac was seen last Saturday was there any comment on its shape was it well formed at that stage. I know when I had my blighted ovum last year Warren finally located a sac in my uterus which was well formed in shape but had no fetal pole or heartbeat. He diagnosed a BO and sent me for a scan locally over Christmas whilst he was away. It was then that the sac was irregular in shape and it was presumed it had started to break away.
The increased vascular flow is of some concern hun especially with your history you need answers especially with your concerns of hemorrhage even if it's just for your your reasurrance. Your fs sounds useless.
Hope your BT gives you some answers tomorrow.
Thinking of you tonight hun unfortunately no words can make this better xx
11-08-2016 19:37 #609
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@midnite01 I have had no pain and because my sac was seen exactly where its supposed to be, up high in the uterus, its so confusing.
Im ok, Ive calmed myself. (I live in the Shire for those in Sydney, near Cronulla for those not familiar). I just ate nuggets, fishfingers & chips with DS8 and will have a cup of tea and icecream/custard/milo and watch the Bachelor. DS8 keeps me grounded. He is my miracle.
Thank you so much for your support. It means so much as no one really knows what we are doing. This has hit DH more than me. I removed my feelings and cant cry about it. He is so upset. xx
11-08-2016 19:41 #610Senior Member
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Billie2 - I feel angry and frustrated on your behalf. This is bizarre, the sac was there a few days ago and now it's not? I don't know what to say. This is a nightmare for you. Can you go somewhere else for a second opinion scan?
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