I was always adamant I wanted to finish my family before 30. I felt we had our whole lives to make money and develop careers but I felt urgency to have children in our 20's from a very young age. I was incredibly lucky to meet my husband at 18 and We had our first at 25 and I am 36w pregnant with our second at 29. I think I must have had a gut instinct as our second pregnancy took years of ttc and we discovered I have very low ovarian reserve and was told if I had waited until after 30 it may not have been possible to have my own biological children. I am so glad we had kids when we did, even if it hasn't always been easy financially etc!
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18-06-2016 08:05 #51
What's the best age to have a baby?
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I have worked in childcare for almost 10 years and I have met parents of all ages. I have found that the families in the lower socio economic areas were much younger (teens and early 20's) and very laid back, sometimes too much and didn't seem to care what their child had done all day. Their children generally had more behaviour problems. Whereas the families in the higher "more wealthy" socio economic areas were much older (late 30's), very over protective and read into everything way too much, however very involved and loving (not saying the younger parents did t love their children) their children seemed to be happier and more laid back. Many also followed the advice of parenting books and ignored their children's individuality. For example I had a mum refuse to let her child go from 3 sleeps a day to 2 sleeps a day because the book said he shouldn't be doing that yet. So he spent most of the day awake in bed because he wasn't tired yet but mum refused to let us get him up. Not a judgement but just something I have found and of course this was not every single parent.
I am 26 and have just had my first and find it easy however children are my profession, I have experience and I am extremely passionate about child development and my own morals on how I want to raise my child. I also felt ready since I was 18... It just took 7 years to convince my partner lol. Which is another thing to note, you might feel ready but your partner may not. My partner is also 27 and as much I tried to tell him what babies are like, it has been a shock for him and he's not coping at all. He thinks our son is extremely difficult, too demanding and that there's something wrong with him! I consider him a very easy baby! I want to have 4 children and plan to have children into my late 30's.
Sorry if I've repeated anything someone else has said, I haven't read through all the replies
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