It was what I wanted though, I wanted those early years to just focus on one child and I really needed it as my DS is very full on and needed all my attention.
You're probably still in post baby haze too, as soon as I had my baby I wanted another one. Maybe wait till your bub approaches 1 and give your body time to get back on its feet and see how you feel.
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02-05-2016 10:06 #41
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02-05-2016 12:47 #42
I loved my one on one time so much we waited 4 yrs before trying for number 2! Then had numbers 2 and 3 back to back. But it really is such a special time and in some ways I really miss it
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02-05-2016 19:36 #44
Hmm do I fell guilty? Nope I don't know any different I would probably feel guilty if I had the bigger age gap like I initially wanted. Sure more one on one time for your first but the adjustment for them would be much harder. Small age gaps mean number 1 is still young enough to not be jealous. Can't help with the getting period back as I got mine back both times 6 weeks pp even when I was feeding 2!
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