DD is almost 3 weeks old. Yes, I know she's a teeny baby and just wants me, and I'm giving her me, but my question is, how long do you feed them to sleep?
Currently I give her one boob then she has a small amount of awake time then I give her the other boob to get her to sleep.
I don't want to do this forever, as I'm not good at the baby stage and having someone on me 24/7. I want other people to be able to get her to sleep too, as I had terrible trouble with DS and sleeping.
So, how long do you feed to sleep before trying a different method?
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19-04-2016 18:02 #1
Feeding to sleep
19-04-2016 18:07 #2
My plan had been to wait 12 weeks before actively trying to settle any other way. That being said my dd is now 21 mo and still prefers to feed to sleep! The best laid plans huh. 😄
19-04-2016 18:16 #3Senior Member
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Try not to let her go to sleep completely just drowsy but still awake where you can should help later on as she won't be falling asleep on the boob and you can slowly bring the feed back from sleep time ☺ goodluck (I hate the baby stage too 😯)
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19-04-2016 18:55 #6
At least 6 months or more for both of my bubs. I mostly bottle fed.
19-04-2016 19:01 #7
I still feed 10 month old DD to sleep.
19-04-2016 19:02 #8
I'll be crucified for saying this but I don't care. we don't feed to sleep. ds falls asleep on me whilst feeding but I then transition him to bassinet. it wakes him up temporarily but we swaddle and pop him into the basso and he's usually asleep within a few minutes. sometimes he fusses a bit but I'll shhh/pat him and give him his dummy. last night the transition was seamless, almost too easy lol.
we give a bottle of formula for the night feed too (shock horror) so he doesn't tend to get as sleepy with that.
do whatever works for you. it's your bub and its ok to do things that work for you that others may turn their noses up at.
19-04-2016 19:09 #9
Just whenever feels right for you. I was never able to find a right time really....well, I stopped at 4.5 months with help of sleep school, in a very gentle way, no real protests, but then a couple of weeks later she just went feral and I had to feed to sleep again! Probably a wonder week/ leap. And then I never found another good time and she was 2 yrs old and still wanting to do it! So yeah, maybe try when feels right and see if bub responds well but obviously don't force it if it'll cause too much upset. Just try again a bit later. That's what I'd do anyway 😀Good luck!
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