Leotards with hair and nails done perfectly and heavy make up to me equals any number of legitimate sports or occasions.
Now this could be at a
All of which it would totally normal to take a mirror shot and post online. I know I take photos of my kids and post them when they do these things.
No maybe because I live in the tropics but leotards and swimmers are normal clothes everywhere with a pair of shorts/skirt over the top. He'll I did as a teen too.
All totally normal behaviour.
As for 13 years want to seen. Well of course they do its a developmental stage they need to go through to find out who and what they are. That the age where many kids start to firm their teenage identity eg. .. jock, emo. Rocker. Nerd. Good girl/guy. Party girl/guy etc... its all about finding out who you are....
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28-03-2016 23:38 #111
29-03-2016 00:43 #112
However, I think the discussion has got caught up in the attire. The truth is she could just as easily post a photo that "appears" provocative in every day shorts and tee.
And..for the record, she is far from manicured, aside from painting her nails, she is unadorned. Her specialist sport is Touch Rugby..so most of her day is in a rugby top, sports shorts and footy boots. She a pretty diverse kid...
29-03-2016 00:49 #113
29-03-2016 04:39 #114-
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As for the old Gary yes I agree however I find comfort in the fact that there's a higher chance that dirty old perves won't be gaining pleasure by using scantily dressed photos of my children. Old Gary and proud of it!
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29-03-2016 04:53 #115Senior Member
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Ok I'm still back reading on page 8, so apologies if this has been mentioned... but why all the concern about 'the men?
It's the teen boys that I'm worried about...
*disclaimer- not all teen boys, obviously.
29-03-2016 05:47 #116
29-03-2016 15:58 #117Senior Member
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In my experience, these kind of provocative photos will totally lead to that kind of attention from boys, and other girls.
Not the kind of attention that I want my DD being subjected to.
29-03-2016 16:46 #118
I'm thinking I'm missing something.
I couldn't give two hoots if some dirty old perv knocked one out to a photo of my teenage girl. Yes it is gross, but not hurting anyone in the slightest.
Plenty of other things to be more concerned about in regards to teenagers.
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29-03-2016 17:28 #119
You are wrong. 100% wrong that some one taking a photo of an under age child and m.asturbating does not hurt anyone.
S.exual deviance for want of a better word is a slippery slope. The brain habituates and requires higher and higher levels of stimulation. Not everyone who views child exploitation material will go on to contact offend but many will.
It is everyone's responsibility to ensure that these 'dirty perves' everyone is referring to so flippantly are not able to access this material.
I'm not saying that this will happen to the OP's daughter's photos. But the fact that a number of posters have brushed aside the very real fact that some individuals will become aroused by what seems to be relatively innocent imagery and then go on to contact offend is blowing my mind.
29-03-2016 17:33 #120
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