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    so sorry to hear, @Summer. I'd prob start recording the conversations on my phone if there's no other witnesses. though not sure if that's legal either. I'm sorry you have to go through all this & I hope it doesn't effect your DE money. hugs

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    Quote Originally Posted by Summer View Post
    Thank you, I just can't stop crying, we so thought this was going to be done and dusted today and she just will not finalise things. Rest assured we are going for the throat now, we're hiring a top barrister and sparing no expense to absolutely demolish her in court. There's no guarantee we'll be awarded costs, but at least we have a good case to show we were willing to settle and she is the one that just kept fighting this with no cause. Far out....
    Good!!! She deserves everything she's going to get!!! C R U N T!!!!😡

    Don't cry Luv....this is just another mountain to climb & claim on the way to your ultimate destination..."MT Mummy"😊

    Even if you get awarded some costs...that's got to be better than none. Even if you do get none...there will be another way forward. DH will sell the business in record time for eg.

    The Universe will see to it ((((Hugs)))

    Now go open up a nice bottle of wine & drink to the biatches demise!!!😁😁😁😁

    Have it with some cheese & crackers etcxoxo

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maxwellsmum View Post
    Summer does she know you want to use the money for DE'S . Sounds like she is purposefully doing it to be spiteful I don't know though what I would do if I was you. It is almost impossible for me to consider the idea of giving up my own baby in the same circumstances and throwing money down the drain in court when it doesn't have to be that way. But she just keeps taking more and more time away doesn't she. I really feel so sorry for you to even be back in this position when you were so close to settling. You poor thing ((huge hugs)).
    Thanks hon, no, she would have no clue about DE, we have not discussed that with anyone at all, only between ourselves. It would only be if she randomly came on here and put two and two together and figured out that Summer was me - but the chances of that would have to be beyond ridiculous - I can't actually see that happening.

    It is breaking my heart, we just wanted this finished so we could move on with our lives, create our happy family at home and not have to spend mega-bucks to finish this. She is fair dinkum insane and all we can hope now is that we get awarded costs to her down the track. Every time we agree to something she just keeps on moving the goal posts, so there's no point going back any more. We have to do our court documents tomorrow, so there is no more negotiation. She's definitely not sane and I think we're going to bringing that up in court.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maxwellsmum View Post
    That is fair enough. Well where there is a will there is a way. I would take her down and still do DE'S as well and then worry about the money situation later. We redrew on our home loan for our DE cycle. I am just glad she doesn't know what you want to do the mean and spiteful ***** I don't think she would like the thought of you and DH having a baby together which is why for a moment I thought that might have been why she keeps trying to make it harder for you both.
    Thank goodness she doesn't know about that, and yes she would be spitting chips if DH and I have a child. As far as anyone knows, and that includes my family, friends, everyone, we are finished and not pursuing having a child any further. The only one that does know is the lady who offered me her eggs and she lives overseas. So it's not that, she is just playing games, she is the sort of person that must have the final word, so just when we think its finished, she changes things again. We've had enough now, GAME ON BIATCH.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Summer View Post
    She's definitely not sane and I think we're going to bringing that up in court.
    I'd run that past your lawyer, because you don't want her accusing you of defamation or whatever the legal term is (even if true). could you say "extremely uncooperative & indecisive" (or similar) instead
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    Ok @Summer at the risk of having my head bitten off (please don't as I'm pretty tender re ex's at the moment - mine's due at my house in 3 hours & all I want to do is run the garden fork through him)...is it really the term 3/term 4 issue that is the negotiating point now? So about 11-13 weeks worth of contact (which equates to about 11-13 days of contact?). If you concede these 11-13 days today or tomorrow can a judge sign off the plan and it's set in stone, she must comply?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    Ok @Summer at the risk of having my head bitten off (please don't as I'm pretty tender re ex's at the moment - mine's due at my house in 3 hours & all I want to do is run the garden fork through him)...is it really the term 3/term 4 issue that is the negotiating point now? So about 11-13 weeks worth of contact (which equates to about 11-13 days of contact?). If you concede these 11-13 days today or tomorrow can a judge sign off the plan and it's set in stone, she must comply?
    Hon, we've been doing that for the last couple of weeks, we concede days, she agrees, then changes the terms. So far we've conceded seven nights to six, then an extra night each holidays, then starting in term 3 rather than term 2, and each time we concede a point, she reneges on it. So now after her agreeing to Term 3 on the weekend, then changing it again to Term 4, if we agree to that, she will just come back with another change tomorrow and this will never be finalised. So this is about the sixth time now that we've agreed and she's gone and changed it again, so we've had to call it.

    Yep, ram him with the fork.
    @winsor of course we'll be guided by our lawyer to do it properly

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    Fair enough hun. I understand. (And my calculations were out on how many days you'd lose out on - sorry about that).
    So the next practical question is how you can not only protect YOUR own sanity but how you can get YOUR baby. I'm guessing the court process for DSS is going to take awhile now, or will a judge this week grant the Parenting Order?
    Can DH release equity from one of his/your properties to keep your DE journey going?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    Fair enough hun. I understand. (And my calculations were out on how many days you'd lose out on - sorry about that). So the next practical question is how you can not only protect YOUR own sanity but how you can get YOUR baby. I'm guessing the court process for DSS is going to take awhile now, or will a judge this week grant the Parenting Order? Can DH release equity from one of his/your properties to keep your DE journey going?
    All good sweetie. We have court in two weeks, so it should be finalised then, but following that we will have to initiate a costs case to claim the funds back and I'm not sure how long that will take. DH and I will have to discuss what happens with the $ side of things for DE, there will be a way, it just won't be as straightforward as it was going to be.

    So yes, we can possibly draw some funds from a property, or maybe my business will kick on and I'll have the funds, or DH will sell his business, or just draw the funds out of his business... We will do it (if worst comes to worst I have a clear credit card that I could put it on), so it will happen, but now it just means more stress and juggling rather than being relatively easy.

    And if DH spends this money on court, then even though he's on board with DE, it just puts me in a more awkward position wanting to spend another $20K straight after spending $30+ in court. Just when all was settled and looking good, I just didn't need this pressure. DH might be fine, but I don't want to be back where we were a few months ago

    ETA: She is not taking away my opportunity to have a child. Mumma Bear is on the warpath - NOTHING and NOONE will get in the way of us creating our family
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    Understood. So the (messy) end is in sight. Yay. I can't wait for you to get to the day when it's all more straight-forward. God knows you deserve it.
    Where's she getting her money from to pay for all her legal costs?
    I know I want to settle with my ex asap as the hourly rate for my solicitor is extortionate!!

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