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    Default Am I being unreasonable?

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    It seems she had let go of your friendship

    I don't think you have been unreasonable in wanting communication but as I dsid i think she has let go

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    It may die off for a bit. If you let things lie and maintain occasional contact you may be able to reestablish yiur friendship in a few years or so when her life changes

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    I think you are thinking the wise way. Keep it cool and even if you feel hurt now there is no reason you have to let her know. Once things are said it is so hard to take them back, most often it is too late.

    It sounds like you have the basis for a friendship that can survive. You just need to ride out the tough times

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    You are not being unreasonable - your friend is fobbing you off. It's not a nice feeling.

    I hope you get some decent communication from her soon so you know where you stand. I dare say she might have some alternative plans for the long weekend but she's finding it hard to let you down in an honest way.

    That being said I don't agree with her approach at all - it's rude.

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    Sometimes we make mistakes that we later regret. Your friend could be making one of these mistakes.

    Not quite on the same scale but at 19 I did something similar and stood up a family. I feel bad about it to this day but they kept the doors open.

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    Not at all!
    She should be able to let you know her plans especially if she is all over facebook!
    I hope that she lets you know asap.
    It's hard growing apart from friends (if that is what is happening) it does hurt.


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