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    Quote Originally Posted by needingamiracle2016 View Post
    Well I am out for this cycle started bleeding this morning which has gotten heavier as the day has gone on so it looks like af has arrived still have to go for bt tomorrow to confirm but another failed cycle... feeling absolutely heartbroken thought this would be our turn 😭😭😭
    So sorry to hear. Be kind to yourself xxx

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    @hopefull29

    I completely understand - and it's hard because you really want to be happy for others be share in their joy, but at the same time it hurts a lot to smile through the tears. It never ceases to amaze me how insensitive people who have not experienced the IVF process can be.
    My sister in law did the same thing to me. She meant well but would constantly come bounding along when I was having a clearly quiet and serious discussion with a relative only to share another anecdote about how hard it was that people spent all their lives trying not to feel pregnant only to find it doesn't happen when you want it to (she fell pregnant her second month after coming off the pill).
    I do love her greatly, but there is still a lot of pain there - so much so that I found myself crying silent in the church for her now sons baptism the other day and had to quietly duck off at the end when no one was looking so as not to make a scene.
    It's hard, and I really don't know how else you make it easier without being rude to people like that!

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    Well this morning my embie is nothing but little fragments. I just don't know what is wrong with me...

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    Quote Originally Posted by skeeter View Post
    Well this morning my embie is nothing but little fragments. I just don't know what is wrong with me...
    I'm sorry skeeter. That really sucks. Look after yourself X

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    @hopefull29 - Great that you have started things going hun, I have to say every cycle has been different for me, sometimes I feel bloated and tired other cycles O haven't felt much going on at all. Just listen to your body though and do what you need to get through. I sympathise too with dealing with other pregnancy announcements after my last bfn I dealt with four announcements over a 2 week period, two from very close family. Not many people know what we are going through and unfortunately some very fertile women have no idea thats its not as straight forward for everyone and come out with very hurtful comments, I want to let everyone know after we finish our Journey and educate people in someway what not to say to other women, even if I just get my story out over fb or something!
    @skeeter - oh no hun so sorry to hear really hoping your little embie has started to develop overnight and you can go to transfer. I can so sympathise as I have been in that position, I had 3 frozen embies, two of which I transfered with no issues but bfn's. On my final transfer the embie wasn't re expanding after thaw and we had no back ups, we did transfer with not much hope but bfn it was devestating. We only have one embie frozen this time which has been pgd tested and its part of the reason we are doing another fresh cycle before transfering it. Big hugs hun x
    @Muchulu1 - Really hoping it works out for you hun and you get a suprise bfp! You are right though all we can do is pick outselves up and keep going, people say how much stronger it will make us but I feel strong enough now come on its our time already!!
    @Heartnutella - It does work for some ladies first time hun, hopefully your road will be short x

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    @xinan - sorry to hear you've been suffering too with well intended relatives who have no clue. Its a good job we have threads like this to talk to ladies going through the same thing isn't it people who understand.
    @skeeter - So so sorry hun my last message was wrote before I saw this, big hugs hun. Just remember its not your fault dont be hard on yourself, take some time for yourself xx

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    Just got news from the embryologist that nothing has fertilised again (two from two cycles with a total of 7 eggs)
    Apparently not common, they don't know why.
    Feeling very dejected and frustrated that this is not something I can fix.
    Got the call at work which is even better as now crying in a meeting room wondering how I can make myself look presentable again.
    Argh. Why does it have to be like this???

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    Quote Originally Posted by skeeter View Post
    Well this morning my embie is nothing but little fragments. I just don't know what is wrong with me...
    So sorry @skeeter that just plain sucks. I know there is nothing we can say to make you feel any better. Just know we're thinking of you. Big hugs x

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    Quote Originally Posted by xinan View Post
    Just got news from the embryologist that nothing has fertilised again (two from two cycles with a total of 7 eggs)
    Apparently not common, they don't know why.
    Feeling very dejected and frustrated that this is not something I can fix.
    Got the call at work which is even better as now crying in a meeting room wondering how I can make myself look presentable again.
    Argh. Why does it have to be like this???
    Oh no hun how upsetting!! Did they say why this happens and if there is anything that can be done? Can you speak to your fs asap for more info? Thinking of you xxx

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    @hopeful29 I'm sorry you have to be in that situation. It really sucks. Please vent because we all understand.

    I actually have someone who's very close who called very recently to tell me about their pregnancy. She said she couldn't believe that she fell pregnant so quickly AGAIN! The first time she called me crying because she was in shock about how quick it was. That upset me and this time round it upset me again. So I finally told her that we're back doing IVF again (she knew we had to before) and that whilst I'm really happy for her it was hard hearing how quickly it happened for you. She was close enough to hear my honest feedback...but also close enough to know better. It really hurts when people don't know how they should talk about things. And I agree, I knew before trying what was socially acceptable. But on the other hand the lack of experience makes people a bit blind too. No excuse in my opinion but I know I can't change how people act. All I can do is look after my energy and give more to me and less to them.

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