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    Quote Originally Posted by Thescientist View Post
    How does everyone keep positive while ttc?

    I'm getting really stressed and anxious about it and am not interested in DtD like at all?

    I'm just convinced it's not our month so I've already given up. Which will probably mean my negative thoughts will mean I won't get pregnant.

    I keep reading all these stories saying we stopped trying and got pregnant. Does trying really inhibit you from getting pregnant?
    We were ttc DD for 9 cycles before we fell pregnant. The month it happened, we were on holidays at O time and I wasn't thinking about ttc at all.

    But you still have to DTD while you're not trying lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thescientist View Post
    How does everyone keep positive while ttc?

    I'm getting really stressed and anxious about it and am not interested in DtD like at all?

    I'm just convinced it's not our month so I've already given up. Which will probably mean my negative thoughts will mean I won't get pregnant.

    I keep reading all these stories saying we stopped trying and got pregnant. Does trying really inhibit you from getting pregnant?
    Try not to stress... It's been 6 years since we TTC resulting in our DD2, so this time round, I'm a bit nervous... DH is like, it will happen when it's meant too (I think implantation is happening now); don't give up, you won't know unless you try, and no I don't think 'trying' inhibits you at all, just makes it a bit (more) nerve wracking!! Don't read too much just now, and try and relax and enjoy this journey if you can. Sometimes when we're not 'feeling it' is when the best things happen! Hugs...

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    I try to stay positive, because to sone extent, it is out of my control. I can mope around feeling negative, but it's not going to achieve anything.

    I figure whether I'm positive or negative, I'm still going to be depressed and disappointed when AF arrives, so I may as well hang onto hope while I can. That way there's only a couple of days of the month where I'm down, instead of the whole month.

    When AF arrives, I have a couple of sad days, then pick myself up and think positively for the next month

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    @Mellie29
    How are you going? Are your tests getting darker?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lil Smurfy View Post
    @Mellie29
    How are you going? Are your tests getting darker?
    hi @Lil Smurfy - its going well so far.

    The tests are slowly getting darker. Today's line was certainly darker thank yesterday but they are still not super super bright. Today should be 14dpo and AF due date, so i'm happy to have the second line still there.

    If its a bit darker tomorrow i'm going to go and make an appointment with my GP to get the bloods to confirm.

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    I am trying to keep super busy and it's working pretty well!

    Writing heaps for my thesis, getting back into some tv shows, have a weekend full of things planned and am going to book us a weekend away next weekend (Friday is o date)

    I'm trying not to follow Bub Hub or goggle but when I'm alone in the mornings and tired occasionally I slip and have a wee looksies 😝

    I am far less stressed than last month but just have no hope lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thescientist View Post
    I am trying to keep super busy and it's working pretty well!

    Writing heaps for my thesis, getting back into some tv shows, have a weekend full of things planned and am going to book us a weekend away next weekend (Friday is o date)

    I'm trying not to follow Bub Hub or goggle but when I'm alone in the mornings and tired occasionally I slip and have a wee looksies 😝

    I am far less stressed than last month but just have no hope lol
    That all sounds good and so nice re: weekend away...

    BH is a good place to come and write your thoughts / fears / excitement and share with others. Keep doing that. x

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    I stress out, and cry, and mope, and think its never going to happen, then af stops, and I get all positive and obsessive with O dates and the 2ww. So I don't cope with it well lol

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    I'm hoping I O earlier this month on clomid, cd18 is sooooo late!

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    Still no idea what's going on here, got major type AF pains in abdo area, cervix super high, no idea on CM as we're still BD every night. I'm not enjoying it at all. Is it sad that I lay there and can't wait for it to be over lol.

    I feel super bloated and just all round crampy.

    According to AF last month on FF it puts me to ovulate on 29th or if I remove those details off FF it puts me at ovulation on the 2nd. So I have no idea as I've been really twingy for weeks.

    Spotted on 30th and 2nd..


 

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