Honestly I don't see equality where it needs to be for several generations yet bc it is so deep rooted.
But my contribution is raising sons that believe a degree in science is for anyone, not just men. That would never be mentally or physically abusive to their partners (including other men if they are gay). If their wife decides she wants to be a SAHM that he geuinely respects her role and doesn't make snide "what do you do all day" comments. That as bosses that they hire the best person for the job, no matter their sex and to support their female employees with families.
And of course I will, and am already teaching my daughter to fight for her dreams and her rights, both occupationally, in her relationships, in life in general
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10-03-2016 08:32 #181
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10-03-2016 09:11 #182
I hope my girls grow up with a different reality to mine. I work and have children so am trying to lead by example. My husband is extremely hands on to the point I'd say he often does more than me.
I'm also going to actively encourage them not to become lawyers.
10-03-2016 12:10 #183
When I was looking for my first car, I took dh (dp at the time) along with me. The money was in my bank account, the car would be in my name, I was solely making the decision and I know enough about cars to ask the right questions, yet the sales people would completely ignore me and only converse with dh.
The same scenario happens whenever we're purchasing household items. Mind you, I worked in an electrical store, so have more knowledge than dh.
To answer @A-Squared - I don't ignore gender biased behaviour. For instance, in my above scenarios, I will point out what they're doing.
I'm raising my daughters to know they don't have to fit in the stereotypical gender mould, or that their worth is less than a man's. I want then to always speak up for what is right, to never feel like they have to just accept that's the way it is.
As for things in the broader community, not yet. But I have every intention to when it's possible.
11-03-2016 09:19 #184
11-03-2016 11:29 #185
Hmm, this is interesting because I don't believe we are equal at all- how could anyone actually believe that? BUT I don't think we need International Women's Day.
Then again, there are a lot of "Days" that I feel are unnecessary so...
Do I identify as a feminist? Yes and no... I'm an equalist- I don't support women's rights so much as equal rights. May seems like splitting hairs, but that's how my brain words it.
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11-03-2016 11:50 #186Senior Member
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My view .. If we have international women's day why don't we have international men's day? why do men get left out ? That's not equality
11-03-2016 12:02 #187
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11-03-2016 12:46 #188
SassyMummy already said, there IS an IMD, and it's November 19th. So all those poor men that feel left out, can have their day, if they want to celebrate it.
But in reality, do men actually NEED a day of recognition and celebration for being men? Men are the top. They are the supreme. They are the standard to which everyone else (read: women) are held. They are not fighting an uphill battle against inequality like women are. They aren't beaten, raped, abused, tortured, victim blamed in the way that women are. They aren't the majority poor, they aren't the majority single parent. They are highly represented in government. They can be anything that they want to do and climb that corporate ladder without constantly hitting that glass ceiling.
I'm not going to continue, because I'm sure you get the idea. But really. When is International Men's Day? It's November 19th. So whilst the privileged men will be celebrating their maleness and everything that they have accomplished in this world for simply being men, I'll be remembering all the women in this world who have suffered, and continue to suffer, at the hands of men.
11-03-2016 13:24 #189
11-03-2016 13:25 #190
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