Perhaps turn things around and ask yourself if my daughter was in this situation would I tell her to stay for the kids or get her to leave so her kids didnt grow up thinking this was how a husband treats their wife?
The only way you are every truely going to "get back at" or make your husband annoyed is by packing up your belongings when he is gone and leaving and having a happy life without him controlling you. He wont like seeing you happy and successful but its what you deserve and you can have this.
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I'm not sure what has happened in the past so apologies if there is something big I have missed. If your husband has been a super di@k and you still want him over, not sure why you are so anti the sister coming over?
I agree with a pp who mentioned point scoring. You've got to put your own feelings aside, agendas with the hubby aside and make considered decisions that are focused on what is in the best interests of your children. It's not easy Hun I know. But it's necessary if they are to have a hope in hell of coming out of this relatively unscathed. You deserve to be a happy mum to happy kids.
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27-03-2016 16:35 #244
sorry but why do the goal posts keep moving?
I thought you were leaving him if he went on this trip?
why are we now nit picking Easter plans?
this thread is going round in circles.
I don't think the OP has any intention to leave this guy tbh.
27-03-2016 16:39 #245
Yes I had made my mind up to leave him if he went on this trip. ..
What I'm saying is that if their was proof that I had of a affair then I would be having these conversations with you all at all....it would be well and truly over ..
27-03-2016 16:40 #246
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27-03-2016 16:41 #247
It's over he has left ...Gees you like to rub salt into the very fresh wounds ...thanks Ladies. ..
27-03-2016 16:42 #248
Regardless of proof or not, everything you have told us on here about your relationship with your husband should be proof enough to yourself to do better for yourself and your kids. Don't you want to be happy? Provide a happy life for your kids? I've been divorced, had to start again with two little kids. It is really hard, but worth it. You can do the same. There are plenty of organisations you can go to. We all have to swallow our pride at times and ask for help. You can do it. It's not about rubbing salt in wounds, its about doing, not saying. Believe it or not, we want to see you move on and have a happier life. A lot of us can see the bigger picture because we have had to go through it ourselves. I was a new single mum with a 3yo and 18mth old, in 2008 with no previous rental references. I had to go to St Vinnies, Centrelink and all the rest. If I can start over, if any of these ladies can, you can.
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