Unplanned. I found out I was UTD with my first at 21 weeks, many moons ago when I was tiny and had stomach muscles. The second was a happy accident thanks to a contraceptive fail. Belly babe we had discussed but not actively TTC as DP wasn't feeling ready yet.
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12-02-2016 19:28 #11
12-02-2016 19:28 #12
We always planned to have a large family. With 6 as the ideal figure. Some of them just didn't come when we expected them. Our first we had been married 7 weeks and found out we were 5weeks pregnant.
It took almost 6 years of trying to have our 2nd. Our 3rd and 4th were on our schedule (that sounds so weird) our 5th was a delightful not trying but not preventing. Our 6th was a surprise. He showed his pink line the day after we returned from looking at interstate universities for our eldest.
12-02-2016 19:32 #13Senior Member
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1st planned - long time in the making, second planned IVF after 5 years of trying, third not in the plan, but the only real option having one frozen embryo from our IVF with #2 attempt! But over all very happy ☺
12-02-2016 19:34 #14
My first was a surprise but we were more of if it happens it happens just didnt think it would be first go.
Second was planned but lost in early mc
Third was planned but was a surprise because i was told i would not get pregnant naturally
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12-02-2016 19:36 #15
Very much planned, but after 8 years and 9 rounds of IVF it was one hell of a surprise.
12-02-2016 19:44 #16
Planned... at this rate if we ever have a second it would be a huge surprise and near miracle 😂
12-02-2016 19:45 #17
One surprise, one planned.
12-02-2016 19:57 #18
DS was 'not preventing but not officially TTC'
DD was a 3 year IVF journey so very planned
12-02-2016 19:57 #19-
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Where your children planned or surprises?
Planned to the tee. I'm super paranoid and hence vigilant with contraception - no surprises here in over 20 years of shagging.
12-02-2016 20:04 #20
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