Charlie74 that stuff seems to make zero impact for me too. It's so weird!! I hope they can just give you more time as it is growing just slowly. Sooo frustrating. Hang in there.
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08-02-2016 16:38 #173
@Precious40 this just seems to get harder and uglier. It must be so difficult to have to make these decisions when it's so raw and also confusing. I hope these fs' can sort it out amongst themselves and guide you cautiously and clearly. Wish you the best tomorrow luv x
08-02-2016 16:40 #174
@Summer that cow!!! I was so livid reading your post I nearly threw my phone across the room. I hate that she did that. It's so low!!! Grrr. I hope you can sort that out pronto. Still fuming. You are so amazing.
08-02-2016 16:42 #175
@winsor your second line is all the more amazing now I've heard of its beginnings. So crazy happy for you and got everything double crossed that the line continues to darken. Has anyone ever thought it was weird the line is only ever pink? Always makes me think it's a girl.
08-02-2016 16:42 #176
Not like the pad ads where the liquid is always blue! Haha.
08-02-2016 16:43 #177
He might tell you to start the Clexane tomorrow instead Luv. Prob better to start it a few days earlier than later though it goes into your blood ****** right away so no doubt 2 days really wouldn't make a discernible difference I wouldn't have thought???
08-02-2016 16:49 #178
I'm not surprised you feel all over the shop Luv!!
I wonder if there's a chance the sack has been reabsorbed into your body by now??
It's only a "maybe" about the ectopic, but you can always tell your FS you had an appointment with an immune specialist and he felt that there was a possibility it could be an ectopic on your left tube and you were to let him know.
It's really none of your FS's business if you want to go and get further testing/opinions done. He doesn't have to "approve" it and you don't have to justify it either. I'm not trying to sound harsh, just saying how it is Luv plus they're two very different specialities so there's no reason your FS should be offended etc IMO.
I think just put your thoughts on hold about everything that's happened today as best as you can..try to relax somehow..with a nice bath etc and try to distract yourself too as well as get the most restful sleep you can and decide how you're going to deal with it in the morning when you wake up
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08-02-2016 16:49 #179
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this news on top of what you have already had to go through. I wonder if your Doctor saw something on the scan which has prompted this latest investigation? Either way, if he suspects an ectopic pregnancy (and for the love of God, why your FS didn't look for it earlier is absolutely beyond me) then the sooner you get it sorted the better. Ectopics can get quite nasty so it's not something that should be dragged out.
I remember when I lost my bub back in October. After the D&C I spent about 2 months (no, I'm not kidding) where I was completely fuzzy-headed. I tried so hard to get back to work but I couldn't sit and read or concentrate on anything as I used to. I think it's part of the grieving process - you sort of go numb for a while in order to be able to cope with it.
What I am ever-so-not-eloquently trying to say is that what you are feeling is normal love. Sending you massive hugs
08-02-2016 16:50 #180Senior Member
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aww thanks @Caesardust. I guess we all have similar stories on this rollercoaster ride. at the time I was saying to DP that the first one was like him, the boy as it was quick off the mark but the second was more like me, (the girl), wanting to check things out first then go forward. so I've just always thought it was a girl. but who knows. I hope we get to find out.
I was naughty and did another test and it's much lighter. but I had drunk nearly 2L over a few hours before and had gone to the toilet only an hour or so early, so I'm calling it a dilution error/anomaly and trying not to stress. I don't think the real line would've dropped that quickly - last time it happened over a few days. (at least that's what I'm telling myself!!) I still have the other 'symptoms' so that's keeping me calm that it's still there.
I hope your second line starts getting darker over next few days.
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