Same Sex Parents TTC list #4

**TortoiseNotTheHare** · 17-03-2016 20:10

It all comes down to patience and money I think. If you can deal with two more transfers then maybe do that... The only reason I say that is because if the uterus or hormones levels aren't right but the embryos are perfect then you have used both in a 'bad' environment whereas the following month the uterus may have been great but no embryo to use.

Having said all that, I think transferring both back in one go could give you a better chance in case one is genetically normal but just not built to last then you have the other to fall back on.

I know plenty of people who have transferred two blasts back and had only one stick anyway. In case you're worried about twins!

ETA - you have had a rough trot but held your head high so surely the universe knows you deserve some good news!

**TandR** · 17-03-2016 20:21

Wow, very interested in reading that not all clinics offer photos. I can't imagine choosing without a photograph. From what we can see, our baby is very similar to DP... Even down to her feet, but has the donors nose... Which was similar to mine as a child. At the end of the day she could turn out a spitting image of the donor but she's ours through and through so we really wouldn't mind.

Baby dust to you all ✨

**Flower78** · 17-03-2016 20:55

Originally Posted by Boxergirl

Both embies, pgd normal. That's the first hurdle over.

Not sure to ask to put both back(if it worked out) or just the one? Can I ask what others would do in our situation, please? 🙏

3rd and final collection for DP..

Hard to know..

Eta: with lots of let downs and disappointments along the way.

I would probably do one. That's because chance of two SETs vs one DET working is similar (slightly higher for two SETs, and 25% twins with the DET). Also if you have one PGD normal one back and it doesn't take maybe they will look harder for another cause why, before doing your next transfer?

It depends on the money of course, and how you are feeling. Good luck deciding.

**Boxergirl** · 18-03-2016 08:45

Thanks for the input, everybody.

I'm having trouble replying to the individual posts, but I have read them!

I'll let you know what we decide ❤️

**Flower78** · 18-03-2016 10:25

ET this morning, now the wait!! I'm pretty busy in the next few weeks so maybe that's good for distraction.

**rainbow road** · 18-03-2016 13:23

Originally Posted by Flower78

ET this morning, now the wait!! I'm pretty busy in the next few weeks so maybe that's good for distraction.

Woohoo! Good luck Flower!!

**TortoiseNotTheHare** · 18-03-2016 15:42

How did the transfer go @Flower78? Fingers crossed!

**Flower78** · 18-03-2016 16:16

Originally Posted by TortoiseNotTheHare

How did the transfer go @Flower78? Fingers crossed!

The transfer went well thanks! The emby wasn't the greatest -Day 6, hadn't completely re expanded and lost a few cells in the thaw. So not the best start but let's hope slow poke gets a move on!

**TortoiseNotTheHare** · 18-03-2016 17:02

Well let's hope slow and steady wins the race hey! Have you got any others left? Sorry I can't remember!

**NandM** · 18-03-2016 17:57

Originally Posted by Flower78

ET this morning, now the wait!! I'm pretty busy in the next few weeks so maybe that's good for distraction.

Good luck flower 😀 hope it's settling in for a long ride

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