Do this ASAP!!!!
Nearly 3 years after leaving my ex and a next month a full year being divorced... We have court in 2 weeks (that I had to initiate) because he tried to stitch me up with a loan that he promised me on numerous occasions he was refinancing.
DO NOT TRUST HIM WITH YOUR FINANCIAL NAME!
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20-02-2016 08:33 #231Senior Member
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20-02-2016 08:33 #232
20-02-2016 08:39 #233
I feel sick. ..
20-02-2016 08:42 #234
you need to get onto this ASAP or else you're going to be left with crippling std (sexually transmitted debt). and hey guess what? it'll be another way he can exercise control over you, delay you being able to leave etc.
pay no attention to his emotional manipulation sand getting stroppy. he's a child with a slapped a$s who's sooky he's been caught.
normal spouses don't secretly try to obtain lines of credit in their partner's name without telling them first. and yes, you need to do much more than just "click a link" to increase someone's credit limit.
this guy is a walking talking joke.
he's a dirty snake in the grass. I'd start making my own arrangements and talking to a lawyer, financial counsellor etc ASAP. at least a yourself with knowledge and info and set some wheels in motion. don't wait around til it's dire and he leaves you with a $50k cc debt.
the banks are unsympathetic and won't care how the credit was obtained. they'll just want their money. stop this in its tracks now before it gets more out of hand.
20-02-2016 08:42 #235
Yes ask him why it's not there. See what sort of bull story he spins you.
20-02-2016 08:44 #236
but ultimately it's up to YOU to action this. please please please, don't allow him to do this.
cancel the card if you have to and get yourself a visa debit card which he has no access to.
20-02-2016 08:45 #237
I asked him and he said that I think I can cope then let's see how I can cope ...now it's stared all again him yelling. ..he said how dare I accuse him of something he didn't do he made a mistake and forgot to tell me ...
20-02-2016 08:46 #238Senior Member
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20-02-2016 08:49 #240
He said that I am being a drama queen over it and made a big deal over it and the way I asked him was rude and sarcastic and I was being a *****...
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