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04-02-2016 20:06 #161
04-02-2016 20:11 #162
Just hits home that's all ....also I have every wanted (who doesn't)...is someone to love and be loved by and a good father. ..to grow old with ...
04-02-2016 20:12 #163
I know it might seem really satisfying to stand in front of this guy telling him what you know and that you're leaving and that he can't hurt you anymore, before walking out the door head held high.
But have you considered how you're going to feel if you don't get the response you want/need?
What if he laughs in your face?
What if he becomes violent?
What if he opens the door to watch you leave?
None of that is satisfying.
You're still in control, actually more so, if you make the decision to leave on your terms, while he's away.
As others have said, you don't need dirt, you have years of it.
Stop expecting this man to give you ANYTHING you need, especially at the end, if he couldn't during your marriage.
04-02-2016 20:14 #164-
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04-02-2016 20:19 #165
I know he will be so angry ...he has screamed at me in the past and thrown things across the room. ..yelled and slammed doors ...sad thing was a few weeks ago we got into a argument a few weeks ago and we were in the car and he put his foot down and sped off (we were both in the car)...he was trying to scare me and for the first time I wasn't scared I didn't care if we lost control of the car or hit a tree ....something came over me and I just wasn't scared...
Mind you he didn't slow down at the lights and the speed camera flash and I'm sure he was done for speeding I laughed out loud at him ....
04-02-2016 20:22 #166
do you think this is it for you though. like what if you left this guy and took some time out for you, got better and healed from this experience and were able to meet another guy who you could grow old with?
it's very likely there's a guy out there looking for exactly the same. it's just that you'll never get to meet them when you're stuck with this guy.
I agree with the other posters, success is the best revenge.
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04-02-2016 20:23 #167
04-02-2016 20:32 #168
He has NO credit cards ....he's not using joint funds ...
He would be using bonuses that he gets from work and only he sees and only he spends....oh and any money that he applies for from payday loans...
04-02-2016 20:36 #169
pay day loans!? eeek. they're bad news. whose name are those in? I'm hoping just his.....?
04-02-2016 20:39 #170
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