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    Hi

    Well after a tough day yesterday, started with first lot of meds at 9:30am I delivered our baby boy at 8:30 last night. We named him Thomas. We decided to hold him which I am glad I did, feel like I had a chance to say bye. We will have him cremated.

    The placenta was not moving though so I still ended up in theatre around 11:30pm to remove that. So a long day. Home now and very tired and emotional.

    Ob and midwife think have identified what went wrong. When Thomas came out the cord was wrapped around his neck 2-3 times and very tight. Can never say that is what definitely happened but ob pretty certain that was the cause. So frustrating. Obviously finally got treatment right to have the cord wrap around his neck.

    after hearing that it is tempting to go back and have one more try with the embryo we have frozen. But I could not go through this again emotionally. Not to mention financially. We said this was going to be our last try, we threw everything at it and if didn't work it was not meant to be.

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    Oh @Debant how gut wrenching for you I'm so glad you chose to hold Thomas and you got to say good bye the best way that was right for you and it's good to know the possible reason why, not having that hanging over your heads and wondering if you had "done" anything, really give yourself time to grieve the loss of your baby and you never know with time how you will feel in regards to your frostie, just be kind to yourself

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    @Debant I am so sorry, I agree with Stacey10. Take all the time you need xx

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    @Debant i just read what happened and I am so heart broken for you. I have been a long time lurker.

    I don't have the words for the sadness from losing Thomas. You have done everything you can, you have moved mountains. Take the time you need and I hope you have a chance to speak with someone to help support you.
    Sending you the biggest hugs.

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    Default Egg Donation in The Czech Republic #3

    I am so so sorry to hear what happened @Debant. This has been one extremely devastating ride for you xo

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    Hi @Debant, I just couldn't believe it when I read your message & post, I'm so sorry for your loss and the pain you must be feeling. I am glad that you were able to hold baby Thomas and have that special time together. I know from reading your posts that you did everything you could as a mother and that Thomas was very much loved. I really hope that you have been able to take time out for yourself. Sending you lots of healing and resilience dust for the future! Xoxo Amber

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    Quick update from me, have my csection today

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    Good luck @stacey10!!!

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    Dropping in from the Greece thread ... @stacey10 hope everything went well today xxxx AngelD

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    @stacey10 hope all went well. Look forward to your next update.


 

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