Thanks ladies.. I may have come across a bit wrong I think. I am not in a heap on the floor. Its my first experience in IVF, and I was being vocal in how I felt, which right now is stupid for being naive. I take my hat off to the ladies in their fight through multiple cycles. You are bloody tough. Being an ex cop, Ive seen a very dark side of life, so I am a bit hardened I guess and was just being open. Im not sure why there was reference to my son when I was mentioning my failed IVF, but yes, I was blessed to have my son falling pregnant in my late 20's naturally. We started ttc #2 when he was 18mths old, he is 8 now. I had two mc's each side of our sons birth. I had a secondary infertility blog, been active on these type of sites before, so Im not new to these feelings. I respect each individual 'journey' (I hate that phrase), and wish everyone success, irrelevant of primary or secondary infertility.
@LegallyBrown I get it. In your shoes, Id feel exactly how you expressed yourself. Just wanted to add that in. Id be a raging monster if we were still ttc #1 after starting ttc in 2006. Id be riding a broomstick to work!
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@stillfuntryin all the best for your scan! I can't believe it's time already, you give me hope that time can really go that quickly!
Merry Christmas @Maxwellsmum I really hope that 2016 is your year, along with the rest of the ladies here xx
@Billie2 although I haven't been in your position, I can definitely understand your desire. Two kids has always been in my life plan (with option to consider #3) and infertility certainly wasn't. I was blessed with DD and feel so grateful for her and know that makes me a million times luckier than others but nothing can stop that desire to fulfil my life plan and give her a sibling. Hopefully this baby is it! As everyone else has said, why should we not be able to do something that others can do so easily? Especially when we put more effort and finances into it. It's really hard to take!
I hope you can somehow find the strength so you can fulfil you dream
I really hope that all you ladies get to experience motherhood one day. You all are so deserving. I know I'm not out of the woods yet but don't understand how I've gotten away with it so much easier than others. Biggest of hugs to you all xx
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Sorry to hear tanej78 xxx this just sucks!
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I am just so friggin stupid. I just touched the electric fence accidentally, with my bloody belly. It can't be good for an embryo. How could I be so stupid. So so angry.
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@Billie2 Yep I ride the broomstick to work everyday for few years now.. Love your sense of humour. If you need support, I think this forum is a good place. There are plenty of women here totally understand what you're going through. Who's going to count numbers of eggs picked up, mature eggs, fertilised eggs...etc. with you? hahaha. Just stupid joke....
@sunny79 Thank you. We are similar age and I had 3 blasts from last cycle with empty hands still....Hope this is your cycle!!!
@stillfuntryin Thank you for understanding and congratulations on your 2nd pregnancy. You are lucky one not to have to experience long journey of IVF. I really hope I can join your train one day lol Thanks for coming back to the forum to support us.....
@Maxwellsmum I'm so sorry to hear about your D&C. I nearly had to go through it once but my level was down to neg. at the hospital on the day. I have never been so happy to see neg blood test my whole life except that day. I wish next cycle will be yours...best of luck.
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Thank you so much everyone... it helps knowing and having some amazing people here to share the burden a little...
Just had to make the phone call to my DH and break the news...
This Friday is 10 years since our first date... we fell pregnant the first time we had been together 18months... never in my wildest dreams did I imagine I'd be here, with a beautiful husband working so hard so we can afford to have a child... Now not only are we apart for the holidays, we havent even got the ending we hoped.
Feeling very lost right now.... we have our loner blast in the freezer, if its abnormal then we're back to square one and need to find another $12,000 for a new cycle.. if it is normal, I'm going to be so friggin scared to put it back, and have my body destroy it before it has a chance...
2015 you suck balls... but then you are just a repeat of 2014, 2013, 2012, 2011, 2010, 2009, 2008 and 2007 so really I shouldn't expect any difference right?
Sorry I haven't replied to you all individually, as you can tell im a bit overwhelmed but I appreciate everyone of you xx
@Billie2 oh that broomstick I'm sure if it wasn't for my beautiful clients I'd be riding that every day to work too... @Maxwellsmum take care of you, amazing & strong, I will pm you x
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