@Tahli it sounds like you have lots of options still but that's what makes it so hard right?!? Sometimes you wish that someone could just tell you which option would yield the best result. Ivf is not that simple god damned it. When the savings are dwindling I would take the option that gives the most second chances. The fs always says to me it's a numbers game which I hold my hope on. Fingers crossed all of this is irrelevant as you have a late implanter x
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13-12-2015 08:33 #772Senior Member
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13-12-2015 09:23 #773Senior Member
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13-12-2015 09:39 #774
Tahli, you sound exactly like me - planning the next step before the current one is even over. It helps though to have plan b,c,d,or e in place, well in advance. It's a great coping mechanism I believe. I think this is your one though so I'll be stalking !
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13-12-2015 17:17 #776Senior Member
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Maxwellmum sorry to hear abt the death in your family .. I know it can be hard talking abt the baby stuff with extended family.
Faithshopeandlove I really pray it's just calculating after adjusting the maternal age n all is well with your future teats.
Tahli fingers crossed love u see a squinted tonight or tomorrow morning. . Yes .. exploring options is also very hard but as JM said.. it is a coping mechanism
Midnite 01 .. yes even I have those thoughts many times when I just get sick of everything and just want to stop. .. All of us have gone through so much .. it's hard not to be forced to think that way sometimes.
Caseardust. . Yes monash is bloody expensive. .. April is not too far love ...
When is your transfer Bongley?
Thanks Gagingi and Blondeinbrisvegas for the useful tips abt ohss. I got gaviscon and all other stuff that you said .. and having lots n lots of water...and it has definitely helped. ..... it's not too of bad that I need to go to hospital.. but my tummy is seriously bloated .. just hoping this embi sticks as I am feeling too tired of this journey..
13-12-2015 17:24 #777
Thanks everyone for your support. The scan for both twins was borderline but the Dr said given the timing of the scan borderline was ok. The high risk part was my age and the blood test. The blood test was abysmal. One part came in at just 10% of what it should be. Three things ars keeping me going: Firstly the scan alone didn't indicate high risk. Secondly a friend of mine had a crappy blood test for her nuchal and her bub was fine. Finally we had so many bad embies that never made it and these ones did. I feel like that's a good indication that they are ok.
13-12-2015 17:49 #778
@Tahli, thank you for thinking about me. I'm just fine, hubby and I just had a huge weekend!
Dinner is about to come out of the oven, but I'll pop back and post later this evening. I have at least read through everyone's posts and have a small list of notes
Hugs to all, I'll be back soon
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13-12-2015 18:47 #779
Dinner done and dusted - roast chicken with coleslaw and home made potato salad - YUM
@Gagingi - Congrats on being PUPO and also on the frozen emby! What a wonderful position to be in, you must be thrilled.
@ Bongley - thank you so much for taking the time (and I bet it took AGES) to put together Roll Call. What a fab job you did
@Grace0908 - welcome to the group. Wishing you all the best on your journey.
@Sue77 - Sorry you got caught up in the OHSS and had to go back to hospital. Hope you are feeling better now hon.
@Caesardust - My sincere condolences love, it's always sad to lose someone close. Hugs to you
@faithandhopellove - You must have been so worried to get those results. I think the other girls are quite right though - at 'our age' the odds are automatically put against us even if everything else looks fine. I also agree with you when you said that these two embies are obviously strong - they took hold when others previoulsy did not. I reckon you can be fairly confident in moving forward, and I hope the NIPT brings clearer results for you
@Maxwellsmum - I'm so sorry love, what a shock you must have had. I had my D&C in October at 8w2d after my scan showed an empty sac. Subsequent testing did identify what the Doctors kindly refer to as 'products of conception' - ie: My Baby. The loss is just so heartbreaking and I really feel for you. I had hoped to MC naturally myself but in the end I was told my body was encapsulating my baby - I didn't want to let the baby go. A D&C was the fastest way forward and it was over quickly and relatively painlessly - physically, at least. Big hugs to you hon, I'm just so sorry
@Tahli - Things could still turn around for you hon, I have everything crossed for you and am sending baby dust your way. Gosh I hope tomorrow brings better news - we need some good strong BFP's around here girls.
Hello to everyone else of course, and I'm sorry for neglecting you all. DH and I had a night away in a crappy motel so we could attend his work's Christmas party. It was a reasonably good meal and a nice night away.
When we got home I got a bee in my bonnet about getting some pet budgies, and couldn't let it go. Bob and Birdie are now the newest additions to our family! They are so sweet - singing all day and they are in love! They kiss all the time, it's so sweet to watch. Combined with all that we did a few things around the house so were busy all weekend. All good though
13-12-2015 21:29 #780
Yes...yes...it's the same sh!t different day for me if you hadn't already figured that out!!! Anyhoo.....am also stalking for "Breaking BFFP News" as well as keeping up with where everyone's at despite the lack of posts!!!
@Tahli Have you had another go tonight with the sticks Luv?? I'm still and praying up a storm for you Girl!! I'm expecting to hear news of the "squinter" variety in the day or so!!
@Gagingi @Sue77 I'm and sending prayers the Universe's way for the pair of you!!!
@Caesardust Am so sorry to hear your sad news Luv I also send my sincere condolences
@Blossom74 Dinner sounded delish!!! Glad you had a good time at DH's Xmas party too...crappy motel not withstanding!!! A night out is a night out after all I say!!!
@Bongley Are you and your oven ready Luv!!! Not long to go now!!!
Hope everyone had a good weekend!! xoxo
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