As a movie goer though, while weird isn't the right word, I don't get why people would go to a baby session without babies. The price difference isn't worth it for me.
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17-11-2015 08:51 #41
17-11-2015 09:11 #42
I feel like you're trying to argue a point for the sake of it. The OP didn't say that other people *made* her feel the way she did, just that she did. There are few times that emotions and feelings are rational to every person. I just feel the way she was shot down was unnecessary. I see the benefit of the doubt, sometimes to the extreme, being given all the time on BH yet the OP was slammed for her feelings when we have no idea whether there are other reasons that would affect that.
And applying the logic you've used in the latter part of your post to the OP world be nice. People do different things, behave differently, react differently.
I'm not disagreeing with your message, but I do think the delivery of it was a bit off.
As a side note, the assumption that people are sinister and have bad intentions when it comes to kids, particularly men, is sad and an indictment on society. But I wasn't and am still not sure that's what the OP was alluding to.
17-11-2015 17:28 #43
If I was the only person in one of these sessions with a baby of course I would feel a bit self conscious about disturbing people or that maybe I was the one in the 'wrong' session. But bottom line, these sessions are not just for people with babies, they are advertised online and on the little paper schedules and in the newspapers as sessions for everyone usually with just a little asterisk saying that it's a mums in bubs session as well. It's not weird for other people to be there because it's not a session closed to the rest of the public.
I'm not attacking the OP, it doesn't bother me that it bothers her. But, if you do feel vulnerable about it than don't go. Everyone has a right to be there so there's nothing really you can change about the situation except your outlook on it.
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