You poor thing, just know you're doing a great job
I have a 4.5 month daughter & I'm in no position to offer advice as I'm still learning myself but she's had a sleep regression too which is so frustrating!
She's gone from waking once a night to about 3-4 times (seems to differ each night).
I used to put her down to sleep at 7pm but lately I've moved her bedtime earlier & it seems to be working ok for us. The days where she is super cranky I've started the process of bathing her at 5.30pm, then dress/swaddle her, feed her & she seems to go to sleep after having a feed. I don't know why but for us moving it forward seems to have made the world of difference although I'm probably creating bad habits.
I say trial & error & do whatever works for you & your baby. It can be so hard when they don't sleep well particularly during the day. My poor dd will get really over tired during the day & fight sleep. Some days she'll fall asleep in my arms & others I'll put her in her cot, she'll get upset but then finally falls asleep. I usually don't leave her for long though & some days I'll put her in her pram around the house & she sometimes goes to sleep too
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12-11-2015 06:46 #11
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12-11-2015 08:58 #13
4 month baby will only sleep on me
@nh2489 the sleep easy solution book (basically a cc guide) advises you can sleep train from 4 months to sleep through the night as long as baby is 15b/6.8 kg (otherwise give a dream feed)
With dd1 I did cc around that age to teach her to self settle - I took the dummy away at this time too. She was a nightmare to put down and was waking 8-10 times a night and I was shattered. It worked great- I still
continued night feeds at that age but I was able to put her down in her cot and walk away
Each to their own though, I never ever thought I'd do cc, particularly at that age, but something had to change before I threw dd1 out the window (or worse).
Eta: her night wakings went from 8+ a night to waking twice for feeds
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12-11-2015 11:42 #15
Thanks everybody. As he's my second baby and I went through a similar time with my first I know why he's doing what he's doing, it's just so hard to alter things at the moment. He's so bad right now that he's taking about an hour to go in his cot (he will fall asleep on me then as soon as he's in his cot wakes up so I have to repeat this 3-4 times) and waking at least 1-2 hourly with the only way to settle being a feed lying on me. Then when I try to transfer him as it kills my back lying flat he wakes up again so it's back to trying to settle. I'm just so shattered. I've got a fitness moniptr that tracks sleep and most nights I get 2-4 hours a night. I've got family staying at the moment so when they leave in a couple of weeks I'm going to try cc/responsive settling as it worked so well. I've been trying more gentle methods such as shush pat etc but it just isn't working and I can't sit by his cot for hours doing it. Also he's at the point now where he's so fed up of not being able to self settle that he just becomes hysterical as soon as I pick him up so no amount of cuddling/rocking etc works. These babies!!!
12-11-2015 12:12 #16
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12-11-2015 18:44 #18
The main problem right now is that he just starts crying hysterically as soon as he goes in the cot even if he doesn't seem overtired. I've tried the pick up put down but it just hasn't been working and then I lose it when he eventually looks like he's going to nod off and my toddler comes crashing in and I'm back to square one having wasted about 30 mins. So it's just gradually got to the point where I'm at now as I've not had the energy or possibility to see it through. Which is why I feel that cc is the only option as we need to get him to self settle and sleep without all the associations he's got now.
So in a few weeks when he's nearing 6 months I'll do what I did before with my ds1 and I'll let you all know how it goes!
13-11-2015 10:59 #19
Hey just a thought, will he fall asleep if you feed lying down in the middle of your bed? I know it's a naughty thing to do but occasionally I feed DS to sleep like this and I can then get up if I'm super Ninja and he stays asleep within a pillow fort.
I then keep an eye on him with a video monitor so if he wakes I can go back in there before he has a chance to roll off but I jus thought this might be worth you trying? If only to teach him he doesn't need to actually be on top of you to nap...
13-11-2015 11:40 #20
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