You always have a choice and I hope that does provide you with at least some form of comfort.
These things happen and it's up to you to decide what's best for you. No matter what you choose, you are not a bad person and you have nothing to feel guilty or shameful about.
Take it one step at a time. Take the test when you can and go from there...
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21-10-2015 14:34 #11
21-10-2015 14:41 #12
so sorry to hear about your dh being so ill and the tough predicament you potentially find yourself in. sending massive hugs and strength to you all during this difficult time. hopefully AF arrives and this is nothing more than a nasty scare.
don't mean to ask a stupid/personal question but are you using contraception? if whatever you're using is not convenient or not working, could you look at switching to something more suitable?
be kind to yourselves and stay strong xx
21-10-2015 15:15 #13Junior Member
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21-10-2015 16:58 #14
How can I have been so irresponsible to be in this situation again?
fingers crossed it's just a scare. do you usually get preg symptoms that early? I know I tend to symptom watch but honestly, my main and only symptom is AF not showing up.
take another test in a few days. if you've taken one already and it's BFN and you're only a couple of days out then I would think you're in the clear as a test would be showing a BFP by now??
Hope you get your BFN (feels weird saying that on bubhub!!) xx
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21-10-2015 17:26 #15
Op, so sorry to hear about your DH.
I work in sexual health and honestly I hear stories just like yours all the time. You are not alone. You are not irresponsible. It happens. All the time. Please contact someone like Marie Stopes International who can help you with some counselling.
22-10-2015 10:27 #16
I am so sorry to hear about your DH and can only imagine how you're feeling right now. Please be kind on yourself, you haven't done anything wrong. Sending you lot's of .
22-10-2015 13:24 #17
I'm so sorry to hear about your DH.
Take only good care of each other and try (as hard as it might be) to avoid the guilt trap. You have enough going on without adding guilt to the mix
22-10-2015 13:34 #18
Hopefully a false alarm.
So sorry about your Dh :-(
22-10-2015 14:35 #19Senior Member
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Just wanted to give you some virtual hugs and support.
I'm so sorry about your husband. Please be kind on yourself.
23-10-2015 16:15 #20
How are you going hun? Has AF arrived? Hope you're doing ok x
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