@Tahli and @midnight, congrats on the lining scans. Sounds like the two of you are both right on track
@beckymae, congrats on being PUPO love!
@JulieM, have you had your BT yet? I presume you will have results by the end of the day? And how lovely of your ex-FS to want to congratulate you personally. Enjoy the celebration.
@Infinity, are you PUPO now too love? Been thinking of you all morning. You have fought so hard to get to this moment, I hope it goes well for you
AFM....the results are in. From the pathology report:-
Whilst no actual foetal parts were identified, chorionic villi, decidua (pregnant uterine lining), hypersecretory endometrium (found in pregnancy) and the actual implantation site were detected.
There was some inflammation present and the doctor explained that my body was attempting to encapsulate the sac and whatever remained inside it. He said I would never have passed it all naturally and it would probably have calcified and stayed with me forever.
It sounds odd, but I find it soothing to know my body wanted that baby so badly it was refusing to give it up.
The report also said there was no evidence of trophoblastic disease (pregnancy related tumours) and the summary diagnosis simply states: "Products of conception are confirmed."
The short of all that medical jargon is that a blighted ovum has been ruled out, a molar pregnancy has been ruled out, and the final diagnosis is "missed miscarriage." There is nothing specifically that could be identified as the cause of my MC - it was simply bad luck. More than likely there was a chromosomal abnormality which stopped the baby developing as it should.
I have to do a battery of tests tomorrow - my OB wants to start from scratch. I also got a referral to see another FS whom he has worked with, to get a second opinion on how to proceed. I am going to speak to both FS's and then decide in the new year how we will move forward. Ideally I probably need to have a couple of natural cycles to let my body recover before we proceed anyway.
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26-10-2015 13:00 #691
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26-10-2015 13:11 #692
@Blossom74 glad you got some answers. Wonder why they were hell bent on saying you had a blighted ovum...... good to hear you will be speaking to a couple of docs about what to do (sounds familiar) and you'll have some time to give your body a bit of a rest.
26-10-2015 13:25 #693
Yes, I walked away thinking "I knew there was a baby, and not just an empty sac."
He was just too small to see.....
26-10-2015 13:32 #694
The other thing they found was nucleated red blood cells. I believe they are only found in foetuses and newborns.
Further proof, in my mind, that my baby did exist.
26-10-2015 13:50 #695
@Blossom74 Am glad you got some answers Luv & confirmed what you already knew.
Sadly it is all too common a thing for many women on their TTC journey😦 It will be good to get a 2nd opinion from another FS too just to see what he/she would do differently...if anything.
A few months to get your body back in order is a good idea plus it gives you & DH time to find the $ hopefully to try again & go get that 2nd opinion.xo
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26-10-2015 14:05 #698Senior Member
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Hi ladies a 4cell day 3dt transfer but im remaining positive as all my previous ones have been awsome and bfn so this one is a little behind vut will be my take home babies yippee im pupo.
26-10-2015 14:07 #699Senior Member
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@Blossom74, I'm glad they gave you confirmation and validation of what you thought. I think a break will be good too, and that's good of your FS to setup a second opinion meeting. I think it shows he cares and wants to do right by you as a person.
wow @Corbes, it's all happening quickly now. good luck for scan & transfer this week
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