Wondering if this is normal. DS is 23 months and doesn't call me mummy/mum.
I think his language development is fine. He has bucket loads of words (at least 50-100 I would say) and will say sentences like "it's a black car", "it's a doggy", can sing almost all the words to twinkle twinkle little star and the alphabet song, and happy dog by justine Clark 😂😂
But he won't call me mum or mummy! He doesn't say it. He calls DP Mama. He knows I am mummy, but he won't call me anything. Do I just need to practise this with him? Is it weird that he isn't? He calls his cousins by their names, and my dad "Papi" and his Pop, "poppa".
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10-10-2015 19:55 #1
DS doesn't call me mum/mummy etc.
10-10-2015 20:03 #2
Are you around him most of the time? My fella took awhile to say mummy or call for me, but would say daddy a lot or ask for daddy. I think I figured out it was because I'm usually always with him so I don't think he felt the need to call out for me? Once he started daycare, then he'd cry for me and that's when he started staying mummy a lot more.
10-10-2015 20:04 #3
I think it makes sense as he's with you most- he doesn't really have a need to name you as much. When we just had DS, DP and I mostly referred to him as a pronoun when speaking to each other, eg 'can you get his shoes' and when I took him to his 2 year health check he couldn't answer what his name was whereas DD certainly knows her name because we have to specify who we mean, if that makes sense?
What does your DS say if he is with his mama and wants you instead?
10-10-2015 20:04 #4
Yep, he's with me full time. He knows who I am - If you say give this to mummy etc he will do, so he knows who I am. Maybe he just has no need to say it! I will work on him saying it more... "Ta mummy" etc.
10-10-2015 20:05 #5
10-10-2015 20:36 #6
Would he answer if you asked him what your name was?
10-10-2015 20:47 #7
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Maybe he is trying to find a word for you. My DD never said it but then started calling me Teddy. It has stuck. I am Teddy to all my kids now
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10-10-2015 22:20 #9
Do you think he could he be getting weirdness from anyone about having two mums?
10-10-2015 22:26 #10
Nope. I am certain it's got nothing to do with that. There's no one around him who would impart that on him, if he could even understand which at at not yet 2 I don't think he could.
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