@leyshoja /JM He's game coming around for dinner after that!! How frucking rude Luv!! Very thoughtless/disrespectful of him to share private info about you & your DP without at the very least asking first!!!
"Pi$$ed off Preggo lady" is a force to be reckoned with & sounds like you're about a hairs breadth away from losing your shiz!!! No need for words...just play this instead:
That is the cue to head to the nearest exit & stay out of your way if they value their lives!!😉😁
I wouldn't bother going to any trouble for dinner either. Baked beans on toast ought to do it!!😁
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04-10-2015 16:30 #951
04-10-2015 16:36 #952
Nope, I'm not cooking. DP says I shouldn't stress about it so much as he has told close friends that we went to Africa for IVF but didn't mention donor eggs. I too have told my family and close friends. I guess it just gets me because these are not people that neither myself nor DP have told. I'm trying real hard to cool down. I also need to keep in mind that these are all close friends and family of DP and it's not just me doing the IVF but him too. I'm trying to make myself see reason..
04-10-2015 16:38 #953
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04-10-2015 16:46 #954
04-10-2015 16:49 #955
There's nothing funny about what you've both been through to get this BFFP either. I say take yourself off for a nice, cool bath or shower Luv (I'd say swim but you haven't got a pool have you?? I wish I had a pool right now!!) so you can calm the mind & body then put your feet up & relax in peace & quiet until "Foghorn FIL" shows up 😉😁
Good!! No cooking (or mowing for that matter) for you!!! 😊
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04-10-2015 16:53 #956
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04-10-2015 17:03 #957
@leyshoja/JM You do have a pool?? Right!! Let's be having your address please😉😁
It's not like you can crack open a bottle of the good stuff either anymore for "medicinal purposes"😉😁
That's right Luv. What's done is done but from here on in you & DP set the rules like what you're going to tell him tonight.
For his sake I hope he tows the line or else:
Enjoy your shower Luv then go put your feet up for a while & relax😊xo
04-10-2015 18:48 #958
@winsor hope the little guy on board is snuggling in, sorry you didn't get any frosties
@leyshoja aka julie I would have been running down the street at the idea of a digi how sad am I?
"I also need to keep in mind that these are all close friends and family of DP and it's not just me doing the IVF but him too. I'm trying to make myself see reason." Ack, but it's not him that's organised it all and that's had his legs in stirrups and taken jabs and bled and been needled etc. I'd be fuming too. It's been a torturous few years the last thing you need is someone you hardly know doing the condescending belly pat and knowing all about it without your consent. Grr.
04-10-2015 19:19 #959Senior Member
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I agree with Bongley. it should be your choice on who to tell and when. I guess they're all excited for you but it would have been nice to let people know on your own timeframe
04-10-2015 19:59 #960
IVF over 40 #17
Yes it would have. It's all crystal clear now. FIL is to tell people that 'Julie's had a gutful and doesn't want anyone knowing anything so I can't say' if anybody asks. Good. I'm happy to be the bad guy ! They can all sod off 😐
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