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    Default Confused about baby number 2

    So we are not trying for baby number 2 yet but we will at some point next year. I am having mixed feelings about it as our first baby was conceived through IVF and it was such a long drawn out process that in some ways i judt dont feel i have the energy to go through it all again. If we do the IVF thing again and it doesnt work, will i be sad forever? I dont really want to get back into a negative emotional state again if things dont go to plan... but equally if we dont try, will i regret it in the future??

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    It sounds like you're not ready to make this decision yet. Try to just enjoy the great life you have, then in a few months time sit down with your partner and have the discussion. Voice your feelings. Does it have to be next year you start trying or can you put it off another year and see how you feel then?

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    You are totally right!! Thank you!!

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    I totally understand how you feel. Have been where you are and after 3 gorgeous boys I am glad those days are behind us. Sending you positive vibes 😊


 

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