He is going to be labelled the naughty kid and most kids who get that label then feel they should live up to it. Anyone who takes the time to know him properly ( librarian, last years teachers, friends parents, soccer coach etc) knows he is not a naughty kid.
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30-08-2015 18:31 #43
Yeh I spoke with his teacher already and she reckoned she had some positive thing in place but I've never seen it and my son has never heard of it. I'm going to make an appointment to see her tomorrow. She is also head of year one so has a lot of time off and he also is not coping with the inconsistency of teachers. Not great for an anxious child who thrives on routine and stability. He's extremely smart (not just saying that but he is a very cluey kid) and is bored very easily and needs to be active so I've even asked her to discreetly keep him active (sending on jobs etc) but she hasn't. We've also identified a friend who she has even recognised as a very bad influence so tells me she keeps them apart but then I see them doing an errand for the teacher together. As if that isn't setting them up to do something silly together.
30-08-2015 18:36 #44
Sorry but I'm really going on a rant here lol.
The other day I was called to do a casual shift at a day care centre.(this is off track a bit). It was my first day and the first thing staff did was tell me the naughty kids. Already I had my guard up then. But then I watched and realised no they aren't naughty they just aren't guided properly or treated with respect. In that day I met a beautiful boy who I was told was a naughty kid. He made my day watching him smile and laugh and follow all directions I gave him. He told me he likes me. I told this to the staff and they were all shocked saying how naughty he is. Classic case of a child being labeled then Ost staff treating the label not the child
30-08-2015 18:43 #45
I think the list is fine. All of the negative behaviours are pretty standard as not being accepted in schools everywhere. The community even.
I truly think the issue seems to be more that you aren't getting support from the school. If it were me I would be demanding a meeting with the deputy or principal and asking WHY they are not supporting your son and supporting you to support your son. It certainly sounds as though he has some issues that need to be ascertained/diagnosed/dealt with professionally and sometimes with documented evidence of this you can gain better access to support - whether it be accelerated learning or in class support for behaviour. I wouldn't bother with the teacher as she sounds like she's all talk and putting him in the too hard basket. Good luck with it all, it must be stressful.
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