@Phony, not in my heaven!
I've created an afterlife that makes me not fear the afterlife. I reserve the right to come back and haunt those I want to and still cuddle my kids and DH.
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28-08-2015 20:47 #21
28-08-2015 20:48 #22
No I dont.
my SIL has told her hubby that he has to mourn her for 5 years before he can start dating or she will come back and haunt him (he doesnt believe in ghosts or heaven or the after life, so it doesnt really bother him) and she has told me that I am to hold him to the 5 year mourning period or she will come back and haunt me (I believe in ghosts and heaven and the afterlife).
My BIL and I have agreed that if she very sadly passes away, he will start dating when he is ready but he wont tell me until the 5 year mark has passed
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28-08-2015 20:50 #23
To answer OP, no I never used to think that way. FOB has never been with anyone else but me so I never used to picture him shacking up with anyone else for companionship etc.
I'm more of a picture-my-funeral type of chick...
28-08-2015 20:53 #24
I want my DH to repartner. My children need a mother. He gets a few months to mourn then I've told my friends they need to help him find a mother for my kids. DH is incredibly OCD and living without a mum would turn the place into something out of the sound of music.
28-08-2015 20:59 #25
I think it would also depend on if DH were left with the kids.. If he lost us all, he'd probably start going out & possibly meet someone..
But if he still had our DDs to care for, I think he'd like to think that he'd hire a nanny so he could still work, and probably bang the nanny 😂
28-08-2015 21:08 #26
Oh yeah, I'd definitely want the kids to have a loving mother figure.
My DH kind of forgets to have fun some times. He's a workaholic.
If I wasn't around he'd be even more serious as the responsibility would be crippling.
Good job I've no plans on dying soon.
28-08-2015 21:10 #27
Your post was going so well until you mentioned banging the nanny!
28-08-2015 21:14 #28
I have joked that I don't ever want to be replaced so he's not allowed to repartner. In all honesty though, I want him to be happy and I want my daughter to eat real food and he hates cooking so I'm sure they'd be living on packet food he was on his own.
My daughter is so in love with one of her daycare teachers who is stunning and a lovely person and I joke to hubby that I won't be shocked if he leaves me for her. So she's who I would pick if I got to choose though what's to say that she would be into him lol.
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