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    Far out - that man is crazy! Not cool on so many levels . I would be extremely upset if my husband did this. Is this out of character?. It would honestly make me wonder what else he was capable of.

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    how many kids are still living at home with you Louise?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Louise41 View Post
    I wish I could leave but a few major things happening for my daughter next few days and I know she will need me

    I'm just so hurt and angry
    Does your daughter live at home? If so, what are her plans? If she's not at moving out on her own stage, would you make plans to move out and take her with you? If you can't leave now (I know you've been thinking about it), then start making firm plans.

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    I wish I could ring my mum but she thinks he's the best thing ever and she would make it all about her anyway..

    I'm seeing a counsellor next week so I'll bring it up.

    I'm just so hurt.

    I told him I was so depressed I wanted to end my life tonight and let him find me but I can't cos my dd needs me and he does this to me

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    I would take that as a sign that he has no respect or consideration for you as a person, let alone a spouse.

    Please don't waste your time sticking it out with this jerk - move on and make your own happiness. It's better to be alone than be in a marriage and feel unloved

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    Quote Originally Posted by turquoisecoast View Post
    how many kids are still living at home with you Louise?
    1 at home.. She's in year 12 starts trials Monday and bf goes away to Canada for 6 months Sunday ... She needs her mum

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    I'm in tears I'm so upset and hurt

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    Quote Originally Posted by Louise41 View Post
    1 at home.. She's in year 12 starts trials Monday and bf goes away to Canada for 6 months Sunday ... She needs her mum
    Can you take her with you? You deserve so much better than the way you're being treated.

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    as hard as this might be to take, I'm getting that you're still looking to him for validation. you're laying yourself bare and he's basically laughing at you to your face.

    I feel so sad for you. nobody deserves this.

    I believe the only way for you to get your sense of worth back is to leave this person who keeps crushing your spirit and make your own life away from him. your kids will understand. if your dd still lives at home, take her with you. get away from this draining negative energy.

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    if my partner did that to me with oil Id probably scream at him or her and call the police and have him or her removed


 

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