Number 2 for sure. I'm a big believer in your wedding, your choices x
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27-05-2015 12:49 #11Junior Member
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27-05-2015 12:51 #12
I would choose option 2, just because that's who you really want to be standing next to DH on the day. You could always say to option 1 that although there's only going to be one groomsman/best man, it would mean a lot to you if he would help plan the Bucks do or something.
And if you decided to choose BIL, you could put up a nice marquee or something to be married under to protect him?
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27-05-2015 13:11 #13
Gah. I think you're right, I am thinking too much into things.
Df started it though! He told me he wanted number two but felt obliged to ask number one!
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27-05-2015 13:20 #14
I don't think you're over anlaysing at all , my dh would think so, but I would be exactly the same as your df, feeling I was obligated to have the friend that had me. But, I think your df should have who he wants, not who he feels he is obligated to have. It's definitely a toughie!
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27-05-2015 13:28 #15
We had none, it was great, I had so many I could have chosen, DH doesn't have many close mates... The best part was the photos where all about us & we got to spend some quality time alone on such a stressful & busy day.
In your case I'd go number 2, but thought I would had that as food for thought :-)
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27-05-2015 16:18 #16
27-05-2015 16:37 #17
I had 3 bridesmaids. 2 of 3 have since gotten married and I wasn't in either of their bridal parties.
I was disappointed but not upset or annoyed or angry, I just understood that they had other constraints and situations and people to think of. I would have hated to be in their bridal party out of obligation. Their wedding, their choice.
Same with you, your wedding your choice. Stuff everyone else. If someone gets upset - their issue. If it ruins a relationship, then it wasn't a strong friendship to begin with and do you really want them in your lives?
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27-05-2015 17:24 #18
We had one attendant each at our wedding. DH asked another good mate (that he had been a groomsman for) to be the MC instead of having a second attendant.
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27-05-2015 17:41 #19
Go with number 2 definitely!
Could you ask #1 to do a reading?
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