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    Quote Originally Posted by Yolandac31 View Post
    I wasn't paranoid about it and gave it to her.. I didn't even think anything bad of it. Now I'm not sure with all the negative comments. My friend liked it..
    For what it's worth, the friend's opinion is the one that matters. It's lovely that you did this for her and it's great that she likes it. I wouldn't feel comfortable putting it on a daughter of mine - that doesn't mean I would judge it on another child iykwim? Try not to take other's responses to heart...

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    For me, it's not that it's sexualised, it's just that it looks like a shell bra on a t-shirt top for a baby. I'm not offended by it but I'd walk right by it if I saw it in a shop.
    I don't want to sound harsh and I think that if the mum loves it, then that's all that matters.
    Try not to take it to heart, OP.

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    I don't see it as breasts at all, and wouldn't have even thought that idea unless mentioned by the OP. Maybe on a pre-teen who actually HAD breasts starting, if it was really highlighting the breast area.... on a baby, it is just a mermaid design against the front?! I'm suprised that people see it as a sexual thing. I wouldn't let my girl wear a bikini, or a mermaid costume like this kind of thing
    but the picture in the OP seems fine to me. I guess everyone sees their own thing, OP, and if your friend loves it, don't worry too much about what others think.

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    I keep thinking it looks like a bra and bras are for breasts. I wouldn't buy it I'm afraid. Sorry, just my honest opinion. Very talented though, and your friend loves it so that's what is important

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    Cute. I would put that on my girls and I'm very strict with what they wear. All it says to me is 'Little Mermaid'. I don't even let my girls wear bikinis but that very is tasteful to me.

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    Probably not

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    I think it would look great with a 'tail' skirt. Would make a cute 1st birthday theme & costume!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AdornedWithCats View Post
    I think it would look great with a 'tail' skirt. Would make a cute 1st birthday theme & costume!
    Or some green pants or green skirt.

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    No, I would not put that on my daughter.

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    It's not my style, but i dont see the "sexualised" side people are seeing...

    And ive got the dirtiest mind i know.

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