Ok so I am 12weeks pregnant and suddenly it has just hit me.. How am I going to cope I have an 18month old already and I'm worried she is going to be left behind.. What can I do to make sure this doesn't happen...
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11-04-2015 06:46 #1
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Baby number 2!
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11-04-2015 06:56 #2
Try not to worry! It's hard when you're used to just having one to manage, I remember thinking that I was turning DDs life upside down and felt awful. But she has absolutely loved having a little brother and they love each other so much.
My advice is to talk to your child about the baby a lot as you near the end of the pregnancy. Make sure they feel like it's their baby too, not just yours. When baby arrives let them 'help' as much as you can, avoid saying no when they want to hold or touch the baby, and if possible make sure they meet baby before anyone else. Try to keep your older child's routine as normal as possible - Playgroup, swimming, daycare, whatever regular activities you do (recruit family to help if needed).
We were lucky that DD accepted her brother so readily but I think the above helped.
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11-04-2015 07:02 #3
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Awww thank you that's such a reassurance to know
me & my husband are so excited & know she will love it but it just hit me like a bullet. I felt guilty
thank you though a huge help
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11-04-2015 17:54 #4
There will be times when you can't tend to both at once and someone has to wait or go without. But that's also an important lesson, it's good for them to learn that their wants/needs sometimes have to come second. Once you're through that initial newborn phase you will find your rhythm again and it won't feel as much like you're splitting yourself between the two.
Having a sibling is a great thing for your child, so don't feel bad or guilty! Even if they take a little while to adjust, chances are they will end up loving each other. I feel like DD gets so much out of having her little bro and he just worships her.
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12-04-2015 05:45 #5
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Thank you so much so nice to hear stories as I was so worried my husband says no no it'll be ok but I was just worried and had no one to turn to for advice! Thank you again! Scan soon gulp then it will make it all real!
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