In the past by "trying" we had just stopped using protection. So not actively trying, but not not trying. If that makes sense. Lol
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06-04-2015 21:40 #11
06-04-2015 21:47 #12
yep makes complete sense
I've heard doing it too much is not good either, like a few good bangs is better than lots of frequent ones (from a semen potency view).
I feel like we need to just kick it up a few notches and make it more of a priority.
it's still enjoyable but there's a goal in sight too so I guess you need to balance both. like it can't be all about one or the other.
06-04-2015 21:50 #13
06-04-2015 21:50 #14Senior Member
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I feel like we're putting an effort in now by being more aware how the my cycles works and have upped our bd from earlier in the cycle until I get the the definitel temp shift haha. But yeh... So much effort!! :P
06-04-2015 21:54 #15
That's exactly right! I think I O around CD16 but not sure. Everyone is different.
By being aware of your cycle, you're giving yourself a head start!
It is a lot of effort though. The long weekend was great cos I had 4 days to focus but the rest of the time I'm too tired from work!
Speaking of which, I better get some sleep, need to be up at 5! Good luck ladies!!
08-04-2015 20:23 #16Senior Member
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we are also trying for number 1.
Gemima we are also "trying but not really"
we thought we would just enjoy the first few months of trying
But i have just come off the pill after 10 years so no idea what will happen or if it will happen. But hubby is enjoying it in the mean time
we are trying to keep it light and not think about it to Much.
I have a lot going on with work and studing so there is a lot going on in our lives to..
08-04-2015 23:07 #17Member
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Hi everyone, we're trying for #1 too....
From mid last year we were in the "trying but not reallly" as in just stopped contraception to see how we went, got pregnant after only 2 cycles, but then miscarried at 11 weeks on New Year's Eve
so now after waiting a few cycles we're actively trying again But this time I'm feeling more anxious about the whole process after everything....I think I need to relax and enjoy "the process" more
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09-04-2015 19:52 #20
af is done (yay) so planning to start bd from tomo night (if we aren't too tired!!). eeek.
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