@Leisylou I agree with @leyshoja All BFN's hurt Luv... Some more than others I reckon. The BFN's I got when we were TTC before we knew anything was wrong hurt just as much as some of the BFN's I got when Cycling.
For myself, Cycle 1 for obvious reasons and Cycle 4 which we thought was going to be our last at the time, hurt more than the others. Either way, it's like a harpoon in the heart for everyone....
I also thought for sure someone would've got a BFP this Easter... @Skyler's still in the game though and so is @tuxcat who'll hopefully nab a surprise natural BFP.... for you Girls!!!
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07-04-2015 11:51 #74Senior Member
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Thanks leisylou, but I'm sure you hurt just as much as I did.
I'm starting to come out of the sadness though. It does get easier. Still no earlier appointment though, argh!
07-04-2015 12:38 #75
Well, I wanted to get my blood test today and asked very early this morning and they have only just gotten back to me NOW to say that its ok. Yeah. Thanks very much ffs. I didn't think it was possible to be in a worse mood today, but yep, now I am. I'll probably do another frer test this afternoon and if still bfn (which of course it will be) I'm cracking a bottle of bubbly and spending the rest of the afternoon trying to feel better
Might go for a run first. That always makes me feel better, even if I do cough up a lung.
07-04-2015 13:00 #76
I heard back overnight from some donor agencies in sa so just want to go home so I can log on and look at profiles! I also have some info on a clinic in San Diego to look into. Just wanna move on now and make my next plan!
Sorry on ph so can't go back to see who said it - I think @Leisylou? But a bfn is a bfn is a bfn and is always bloody devastating.
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07-04-2015 14:36 #78
@Chiefsgirl It's bloody hard to "put on a happy face" in the midst of heartache, but good on you That's great that you've heard back so quickly from a couple of the Clinics
Sounds as though you'll be occupied for a bit from here on in researching, deciding and organising things for the DE plan. Good Luck Luv, am sure you and DH will find something to suit. Keep us updated when you can
@leyshoja How hard is it to ok a BT FFS's??? How did you get on Luv?? Have you been for your run and thrown a bottle or 2 in the fridge?? I like the "Plan D" thing Might as well pop a cork while you do some research tonight I say
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07-04-2015 16:10 #80
So I'm officially out, AF arrived this afternoon. A slightly longer cycle but definitely within the ranges of normal, so I'm not concerned. I just wish it wasn't so hard, it's been six months since my last miscarriage, why haven't I fallen pregnant again? Falling isn't normally my concern, it's the miscarriages and I have a plan with Wazza to try and combat those, so what the hell is going wrong?
I'm allowing myself a little cry today and then I'll pick myself up tomorrow and get started on my super-dooper supplement, mega-health plan and see what April brings. If I can be ****ed that is. Right now all I want to do is give up, but I know that's not an option.
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