My birth plan for DS was mostly centred around the dos and donts if he ended up in nursery (dummy only with procedures, no formula, strictly no visitors until after I had been able to meet, even if that was days etc). Lots of worst case stuff too because of DD's experience.
The 'no visitors until mum has met' was really really important to me. It's not automatically assumed, my in laws got to meet DD before I did and I still feel sad about that.
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26-03-2015 06:28 #33Senior Member
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26-03-2015 07:27 #34
@GM01 funny you should comment in here! I actually saw your birth plan posted in another section of the forum and thought to myself that I liked a lot of what you had written, mine is loosely based off of yours from your last bub, so thankyou!! 😊
26-03-2015 07:30 #35
My plan was almost mostly what I wanted if I had to have a c-sec as the birth centre embodied my birth philosophies.
I ended up transferring to delivery, having an epidural and synto but I felt like my plan was still followed as I ended up choosing to transfer after spending 24 hours stuck at 5cm!
It also included things like delayed cord clamping, not weighing/measuring until he had a chance to feed (we had about an hour of skin to skin and he found his own way to the breast), consent for hep b and vit k, DP to catch the baby if possible (she did).
I was very happy with my birth even though it didn't go according to plan as I felt I got to make the choices myself.
26-03-2015 09:13 #36
26-03-2015 21:22 #37
I couldn't find exactly where I read it but found similar here:
"Our results did not support popular stereotypes: high expectations were not found to be bad for women, although low expectations often were. Information and feeling in control were consistently associated with positive psychological outcomes"
And here seems to find that feeling/being in control helps satisfaction with labour & birth outcome:
Eta: just flipped through the book and it's likely I read it in Gentle Birth Gentle Mothering which referenced this article:
GBGM says "note also that contrary to medical belief, women with high expectations are more likely to be satisfied."
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26-03-2015 21:39 #38Senior Member
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I didn't have low expectations at all, I just didn't have much of a birth plan. And I have to say I had an absolutely amazing labour
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27-03-2015 11:32 #39Senior Member
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Mint was very basic and short. 4 points
- no epidural
- water birth if middie on duty was qualified
- partner to tell me sex of the baby
- allow cord to stop pulsing before cutting it
I feel that birth (especially your first) is such an unknown quantity that to go in with too much of a plan is just setting yourself up for disappointment.
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I wrote a birth plan for my first and most went to plan but it was my husband who made sure of it. I was disappointed that even though I was in the birthing centre rather than the normal birth suite so that I had as natural as possible I found that the midwives were so clinical. This time I'm birthing in a hospital who specializes in natural birth where they promote what I want so I'm really excited and comforted knowing they are anti clinical.
I also think going into birth relies a lot on your mind set.
Good luck with your birth plan. You can have it your way if you believe that that you can.
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