I'm so sorry for your loss darling. I'm so glad you got to meet him. It's horrible to say good bye I know.
Please be so kind to yourself over the coming days months and years.
If you need to talk I'm happy to be there. I know I'm a stranger but I know what it's like to leave the hospital with empty arms Xox
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02-03-2015 11:38 #21
02-03-2015 11:45 #22
I'm so glad you got to meet him and have this few hours. He knows his mummy and was held by his mummy as he grew his wings. Heart breaking and I cannot for the life if my imagine handing him over and going home. You will keep him alive in your heart, he will forever be holding you hand through life.
02-03-2015 12:19 #23
I'm sorry for your loss x.
Don't forget him, talk about him, have some pictures around to help celebrate his life, he is a part of your family. I'd imagine that you had photographs taken.
It will take time to stabilise. It is okay to grieve and take all the time you need. There may be times when you're out and about and just lose the ability to keep it all together and that's okay as you are still strongly grieving his passing. You will go through a range of emotions and it would be worthwhile talking to someone about how you're feeling who has gone through something similar - there are usually groups that you can meet up with who will understand and are sometimes headed by a counsellor.
As you go along your days though...plan what you will do with your day. Try and make a routine for yourself and get out of the house and around others (in moderation of course). There will be times when you need to get out to get tasks done, keep the social interaction or just need the distraction.
Keep your relationship in mind. Be kind to yourselves and each other. Spend some time together doing something enjoyable even if it's just a walk or watching a DVD.
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02-03-2015 12:19 #24
Sending lots of love x
02-03-2015 12:22 #25
Huge hugs. I am so sorry for you loss. Sending you love and strength.
02-03-2015 12:26 #26
I am so sorry for your loss x
02-03-2015 12:44 #27
I am so so sorry Mama.
02-03-2015 12:55 #28
Deepest condolences sweetie, I don't have any advice as I think this kind of event surpasses any rational/normal words of wisdom; there are no words. Just wishes of strength and courage to you.
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your son. He will be your little spirit in the sky forever.
02-03-2015 13:10 #29Senior Member
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im really sorry for your loss op. how heartbreaking. you sound very brave. huge hugs.xo
02-03-2015 13:30 #30
My beautiful baby boy
My heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry you have had to endure this pain. You are in my thoughts.
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